Hi is anyone having a hen do? If so what are you up to? just curious :) X
CommentAuthorCJGroove
I am :) It's meant to be a surprise but I figured it out because of the dates; my bridesmaids are taking me to Hebden Bridge Burlesque Festival, as I'm a Burlesque dancer and a lot of my friends are performing that weekend :) so excited!
CommentAuthorAH86
I found out today mine has been organised for weekend 13-15th march next year and we are going to benalmadena in Spain! So excited! I wanted a kinda last girlie hol before marital bliss and I know this might mean not everyone will come but hey ho, I know my besties will be there and that's all that matters! X
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CommentAuthorCharlieBe-Cool
I am having one, just got no idea what as my BMs are organising it. They get VERY excited when they mention it which makes me nervous, as its probably something they would love, me not so much lol. As long as it has no strippers - I'll die if it does!
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CommentAuthorkittyh
I am having one...no idea where though or what I am doing...the BMs are setting the date this weekend and thy will be planning it completely while I am travelling so i doubt I will know until I am back in the UK! I am so excited and SO glad that they are planning it all and I don't have to lift a finger or make any decisions! I trust them completely anyway, they know what I like (and more importantly what I don't like!) xx
I'm supposed to be... but nothings been organised yet :| oops
CommentAuthorkittyh
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haha you still have plenty of time, i'm on the other side of the world from my girls until January and I am sooooo impatient so I guess they just decided to make a start before I pester the life out of them!
CommentAuthorNoodles
Haha yeah I know :) just trying to find a time when everyones free.
The idea we had was to go out to a local drag cabaret show in fancy dress - villains only, having a villains night out. Not sure if's still going through though!
CommentAuthorkittyh
yeah pinning people down is the hard part! love the villains idea! i do love a bit of fancy dress, one of my best friends is getting married the month before me so we are going to Newcastle (we are from Essex so will be TOWIE hits Geordie Shore haha!) and her hen theme is Alice in Wonderland so will be dressing up for that I think... :)
CommentAuthorNoodles
Newcastle! Yes! (local-ish! bout half an hours drive!)
More than likely where mine will be :) It's a good night out!
CommentAuthorkittyh
Haha you will have to tell me where the good places to go are! :)
CommentAuthorSarah1865red
I'm going to Centre Parcs for the weekend with 11 of my friends - can't wait :-)
Sarah x
CommentAuthorMrschapman2b.
If it's centra parcs. Nottingham you will have a great time!
Me. I'm probably not having one. My idea of a night in the pubs is hell and I just don't fancy it tbh. At a push few drinks in local town would suit me.
Know this sounds mean but would rather add cost of hen night onto honeymoon and have something a bit extra then
CommentAuthorCharlottePhillips2be
I am but probably just a girls night in with a few of my girls :)
CommentAuthorJoD96
I'm having one but am only going to have a night out where I live as my best friend is unable to stay away over night and it wouldn't be the same if I never had her with me
CommentAuthorRachelE118
Off to butlins adults only weekend in a months time!!!
CommentAuthorHelenS18
I am off for a meal tonight
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CommentAuthorInDreamland
I had a Hen weekend that my lovely bridesmaids (sister and best mate) totally organised/arranged for me. All I had to do was hand over the guest list and approve the two venues and hotel. The rest was down to them and they did the best job ever!
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CommentAuthorCharlotteE98
I haven't even thought about it yet! Me and my 3 Sisters are organising it between us, but I haven't a clue what I want to do :o/
CommentAuthornatg85
I have found a cocktail masterclass that I might do, I think the mums will like it just as much as my friends
CommentAuthorTracyP89
I'm having a weekend in benidorm with 6 of my closest mates a few months before , then a more local one for everybody 2weeks before x
CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
I'm having two as I'm at uni so I'm having one with the uni girls and then another with everyone back home! But I have no idea what I'm doing for either of them as they are sorting it all out and I'm not allowed to know details until the day! Xx
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CommentAuthorMiriamF1
I'm having one but no idea what it is as my sister is arranging everything. Only know the date and who is going...love a surprise and I know she won't stitch me up so all good :)
CommentAuthorErinV
I'm having one and am semi organizing it with my BMs. I have always wanted to do a spa weekend, have never done one and thought it would be the perfect time to do it. Much champagne and other goodies to be had as well over the weekend. I've been told what weekend its going to be but will look for the right spa with them.
CommentAuthordan22
There has been more stress and tears over my hen do than the whole wedding. It was all booked to go to brighton in march there was about 12 going then a month and half before everyone started to drop out. So without really wanting to agreed to go somewhere closer to home for 1 night instead with my sister in law saying she will help organise it and my mother in law would go too because it was closer. Now the date has changed to 25th may they complained when i said i wanted to do pole dancing so now we are doing cocktail making instead which was their choice that i thought would be quite boring. And now people are complaining about how much it will cost so we're not staying over night. And now iv said i want fancy dress thats been knocked back too. And to make things worse my h2b has just got back from his stag to benidorm with 15 of his closest friends and cant stop telling me how good it was. I just feel like this is going to be the worse hen night ever :( sorry about the rant its just getting me down. X
CommentAuthorErinV
That's a real shame Dan. I always thought that the hen do should be what the bride wants and everyone goes along with it. I can understand money restraints for some people but would've thought that they could at least pay for one night if they couldn't do two. There are plenty of cheap hotels these days and doubling up will keep the cost down. Perhaps you could try and suggest this them to show your flexible but also stick to your guns on what you want - its your hen do!
CommentAuthorDanielleH99
I'm just having a meal out and drinks in my home town
CommentAuthorclairenina
I'm not having one. I'm struggling to even get people to come to the wedding let alone a hen do :(
CommentAuthorDanielleMystic
im intending to leave mine completely in the hands of my two maids of honor - one is my sister and one is almost a sister we've been friends so long. I'd like to think they know me well enough to know what I would enjoy, and they aren't selfish enough to just book something they want to do x
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CommentAuthorShowgirl
Mine will be 20th-22nd June but I have no idea what my BMs are organising. I suggested Centre Parcs because I want everyone to be able to go off and do things they enjoy (some like being at a spa wheras at least one would absolutely hate that) but then I also found a really nice cottage we could hire. I recently told them that I think the cottage might be too expensive and I was told that they'll sort something out but I really don't know what to expect. I might drop a few more Centre Parcs hints.
CommentAuthorLauraK7
I'm having 2 lol One is just an afternoon tea with the mums a few friends and the 2 little bridesmaid and my other is my big all out clubbing hen do x
