How do you tell your aunty/uncle etc that we have now changed our mind about venue and its small, intimate and they are not invited, reason being we want to try for IVF and instead of spending about £7000 in UK we going gretna green and Just want to take mums/dads/grandparetns/siblings and maybe at a push a few best mates, it qwill cost half price and with other money have a course of IVF,
CommentAuthorchubblywubbly
im sure if you explain your reasons to them they will be fine hun, after all its for a very good reason!! maybe you could make a little photo album for them of your big day to say sorry they couldnt be there..or something similar?! plus aunty/uncles aren't always important people sometimes you just want the closest family there xx
CommentAuthorbridalmiss
I think if you explain that it should be fine, and maybe you can go out for a meal with your aunts/uncles at a later date to celebrate your marriage - it'd be better to say in person but if you're letting them know by email then start with 'as you may or may not know, we're keen to expand our family and have recently been approved for IVF - due to the costs associated with this treatment, we have decided to downsize our wedding celebrations and have a small, simple wedding ceremony at Gretna Green etc. It is with regret that unfortunately this means that not all of our previously invited guests will be able to attend. We hope you understand and we will of course keep you updated with any further news!' etc...
