ohhhhh grrrrrrrr when i said i was getting married i was so excited and happy and i cant believe my so called family they make me sick first in an earlier post i told you all about my fathers wife and her carry on regarding the wedding and her part in it well now its my foster sister my little sister and i make every effort to include her in everything so when she said she wanted to be a bm i was thrilled her little girl was already going to be my flower girl well first she complained that she didnt want to sit next to my little sister as she hates her boyfriend and she would be bored (thanks very much ) now she is saying she she doesnt want to come as i havent invited her family (her mother and 2 sisters ) she said it wasnt fair she didnt have a plus one so i said of course you do i thought you would realise this she said fine im bringing my mum i said ok and thought that was it oooohhhh no not even close to being it now she wants her sisters to have a full day invite which wont happen i was already inviting them to the evening do now apparently her sons (my nephews ) dont want to come cause they cant bring their friends its getting out of hand i feel like telling her fine dont come and dont bring your horrible brats either ohh im so mad but im really hurt to she kept going on about her family and how she was going to be so bored without her family i asked her are we not your family she says of course but i want my family their now my younger sister thinks that my nephews arent comming cause their entire family are not invited sorry to rant on and on with no full stops but have to get it out and im so fed up with the whole thing now xxxxx
CommentAuthorNuttynonnie
its true wot they say . . .u can choose ur friends but not ur family!! I can sympathise as theres a big divide in my family and its a shame people cant put their differences to one side for just one day!! But all i can say is make sure u do things UR way adn concentrate on making it a wonderful day for u and the H2B dont let pettiness on their part ruin it!! xxx
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CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
From another bride who is frustrated and almost ready to stick two fingers up at family members....I feel for you and I haven't even got to the invites and plus ones part yet. Big hugs xxx
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CommentAuthorAli
and here goes the reason why we are eloping to get married. Its your day hun, don't let anyone make you do something that you don't want to. YOu're only gonna do it once!! xxx
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CommentAuthorSteph-Hughes-2b
I agree with Ali. Tell them it's your way or the highway hun x
When we write invites do we have to give a +1 or not necessarily? I will just do this for people I know are in couple but dunno partner's name
Soon to be Mrs Gary Doublé
Everything is now booked
Getting really stressed and excited now
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
bloody hell hun tell her to stop being so demanding!! my god i'd dread her being a bride!! she's bad enough now xx
soon to be Mrs Berry 26.11.2011
CommentAuthorUnknown
tell her it is your wedding and you are inviting who you want there not who other people want and when she gets married she will understand that and until then she just has to like it or lump it! she sounds like she wants everything to be about her. just say no and if she doesnt like it she doesnt have to be there xx
CommentAuthortillyturtle
just tell em to get lost...i feel totally the same..but mine moan about food aswell.. ooo you not having this your only having pork batches but i dont like batchs..then its well i want to wear this and that..JUST TELL EM TO GET STUFFED your day will probably much better without them
CommentAuthorjanetx71
she has been married mrs barkertobe and divorced like myself but she is so bitter and twisted she is difficult at the best of times my uncle and his wife who live in belgium i called him to ask if they were coming as i am trying to work out a proper list so we can have as many of the people there as we can afford well he says if we come we are bringing the children lol i thought yeah fine bribng the dog and youre in laws and the whole friggin family i think im loosing it really i do xx
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Put your foot down before it gets out of hand and tell them how it is going to be and if they really don't like it they don't come. Why pay for people that really don't want to be there unless half of their friends are coming? If they like their friends that much they can go out with them instead. I don't think they realise just how much it costs to invite each person. Maybe if you made this clear to them they might stop wanting to invite every man and his dog.
CommentAuthorjanetx71
i have jo i told my foster sister we cant afford it my h2b is disabled and i care for him so we have saved and scrimped like most couples to afford a day we want cause we both agree that we are not taking out any form of loan for the wedding if we cant afford something we wont be having it she said "well personaly i think if you can invite other sisters boyfriend who youve known five mins and afford it you can invite my family who youve known youre whole life and afford it " she is just off the phone just now saying that she is upset that i havent considered her feelings im speechless i feel like cancelling the whole friggin thing sorry just so fed up now xx
