I want my Dad to walk me down the aisle whether he will that is another question My Dad says to not get married and was actually mad at me that I was engaged Its my decision I will do what I want just because your marriage its working and dunnoe how they are still together but doesn't mean mine will fail I'm not letting my parents marriage put me off I will marry the man of my dreams Who saved me makes me happy whether he likes it or not. Of course he is invited if he doesn't want to do it then I will give my brother who I'm kinda talking to again the job if he says no or they both say no their both not invited and Mum will walk me down the aisle and be at my wedding She never let me down She will be sitting right next to me on the top table =D <3 X
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CommentAuthorSamanthaA83
Im having my dad,i always said tho if for whatever reason my dad couldnt do it then i would have my brother,but if it came to it i would have my mum as my brother is best man lol x
05-12-2004 My big girl was born
30-09-2009 My lil man was born
23-03-2012 My baby boy was born
26-04-2014 I marry the man of my dreams
CommentAuthorNearlyMrsFountain
My brother, I would love my mum but she is an emotional wreck like me so we will be walking down the aisle like we were entering a funeral, I know my brother will be strong and keep me smiling!!! My mum will be in the front row glowing with pride!!! X
CommentAuthorMel D
my father was not told when my wedding was. My uncle/godfather gave me away.
Got married Sat 28/05/2011
Renewing vows Sat 29/05/2021
We're planning WELL in advance!!
My mum is giving me away and my partners 8 yr old is his best man!!! xx
CommentAuthorKayleigh JaneY
I am having a tough time with this, my dad is still around and I do still see him (probably about once or twice a month) and mainly only because my little brother lives with him and my step mum. but over the years I have not really got on with my dad the best out of my family at all! he isn't really one of my kind of people. I have a Step Dad who I get on with really well but I am torn between my twin brother and my Grandad, my granddad has always pretty much been my rock! I am the biggest granddads girl going and I adore him! but I know that it would kill my Dad as well as probably really piss off my dads side of the family, especially when I am planning to ask my only female cousin to be a bridesmaid! anyone got any advice?
CommentAuthorCharlieBe-Cool
My dad. If he cant for any reason, then id probably ask my eldest nephew to do it or walk down on my own. My mum is far too emotional for the job lol!
Met my prince charming - May 2002
Finally tying the knot - July 2015
Where there is love there is life - Muhatma Ghandi
CommentAuthorMickaylaH
My Daddy will be walking me down :D x
CommentAuthorbeximo86
I'm struggling with this one myself, my Dad (who appears to not be the only bell-end of a dad on this thread) seems to think it is his right to do so as my biological father - despite making little to no effort to speak to me, see me or support me since the age of 11; however I want my step-dad to do it because he will not get the opportunity to do so again (my mum remarried but can't have any more children whilst 'daddy dearest' had more kids). My concern is that telling my dad this will cause a blazing row ... then again if he argues over it that's one less invite to make haha =) x
CommentAuthorStephanieM71
My dad (on a technicality he's ex step dad or something or other) but he's my dad and is happy to do it. I think my mum was hoping to be asked but tbh it hadn't even occurred to me to ask her :-S
I never worry about upsetting biological one - he is another bell end - there are many it seems lol
CommentAuthorclairenina
I'm currently not having anyone, planning to walk down on my own. I'm not into old traditions, and don't feel that I'm anyone's to give away. Might change my mind, but as it stands I'm not having anyone
CommentAuthorLadyJ
My Dad will give me away :) I have always dreamed of that
In love since 9.03.2013
Engaged 3.09.2014
Will become Mrs 27.08.2016
CommentAuthorAlexN29
My brother is walking down the aisle with me, my father passed away so we are getting married on his birthday :)
CommentAuthorChelseyfj
My dad for me.
I also had a physic reading recently and it was great. So many things she told me that she couldn't have known, my nan told me she liked my choice (she didn't get to meet my fiancé) And that her and grandad would be at the wedding and having a marvelous time :) amongst many other things x
CommentAuthorVictoriaB
My step dad is giving me away, been my dad since I was 5 year old,he will be made up to be giving me away, when my wedding coordinator asked if he was doing a speech I just said no as I figured he would be too shy to do a speech infront of everyone as he's not that kind of person but when I told him he said he had already prepared a short speech and had a few things he wanted to say I was shocked to say the least so lets see what he has up his sleeve lol x
CommentAuthorNicky2988
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Our son who'll be 13 months old will be walking me down the aisle to his daddy :) x
CommentAuthorFranM76
My Uncle will be giving me away - I lost my Dad to cancer in 2010. My Uncle was also my Dad's best mate so was chuffed to bits I asked him. I did ask my eldest son (will be 16 at the wedding) but he doesn't like the limelight and I didn't want him to feel pressured so he was happy for me to ask my Uncle instead. Would love to have a pyschic reading - see what he thinks of Bren as sadly he never got to meet him. Will be having a small picture in my flowers I think so he can at least walk to the alter with me xxx
CommentAuthorLynneN78
I have asked my gran to give me away as my mum and dad have not spoken to me for over 18 months. Growing up I was always at my gran's house and she's always considered me like a younger daughter as there's only 10 years of difference between me and her youngest daughter. Hopefully my gran will still be here next year as by the time we get married she will have just turned 95, if not then I'll need a back up plan! x
CommentAuthorAnnF53
i just noticed my post i put back in Sept, how things can change, my mum was giving me away but i sadly lost her very very suddenly last month, so now not sure who will give me away as never been a dad about.....:(
CommentAuthorclairenina
oh no Ann that's terrible news. Thinking of you. I don't think I'll have anyone giving me away, I don't feel like I previously "belonged" to anyone for them to do that.
CommentAuthorRebeccaJ4017
This is my second time around and my dad gave me away last time, this time I am thinking about my son walking me down the aisle, he is 14 and we are very close. :-)
CommentAuthorWundatigga
Rebecca I am the same - though technically last time no one gave me away (my step-dad would have but as it was a small registry office I walked on my own in the end). This time my son who will be 13 will give me away :)
Started dating: 10th February 2011
Welcomed our little girl: May 2015
I proposed: 23rd December 2015
I finally become Mrs R 17th August 2017
CommentAuthorEllie95
I was going to have my brother, but my mum said my step dad wanted to do it, so it's going to be my step dad :P xoxo
Met May 2013
Engaged December 2015
Getting Married 22nd June 2018!
CommentAuthorStephH96
No one will be giving me away as it will be the two of us in Vegas.
CommentAuthorMrsPtobe
I haven't decided yet, but I'm thinking of asking my mum? Although I speak to my dad and am hoping he will come to the wedding, my mum has brought me up, so it kind of feels more appropriate. Though I've not decided 100% yet
CommentAuthorMrsToniKB
I'm having my H2B dad to walk me down the aisle, my dad died when I was 9 years old :(, I've been with my H2B for 15 years and my future father in law treats me as if I'm one of his own :), I already call him dad, so when we finally set the date I didn't want anyone else.. My future father in law (dad) doesn't like party's big events etc... But when I asked him to do this he said he would be honoured to do it for my dad! It just feels right to me xx
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CommentAuthorDanielleG93
this is a hard one for me but we have narrowed it down to two. My dad passed away and my grandfather stepped in to be my 'dad' so i always assumed he would walk me down the aisle but as I've been engaged for so long he unfortunately and unexpectedly died too. My next thought was I have 3 brothers so i will ask the oldest one but he is shy so he is an option but if he decides he just cant do it then i'm going to ask my oldest uncle. My uncle and I are really close so i wouldn't be disappointed if my brother didn't do it and my uncle did, plus i think if uncle does do it, it will be lovely for him as he is my only (biological) uncle out of 5 that doesn't have any daughters (he has 3 sons) of his own
Mrs Barlow to-be
2nd September 2017
CommentAuthorNicoleW665
My dad is giving me away, neither of us are very forward with our emotions due to embarrassment so hopefully all will be well! i'm sure it will be x
When we met: August 2009
When we announced engagement: December 2015
When we will get married: September 2017
CommentAuthorShellbell
No one knows yet that we are getting married so ive not said to my dad about it yet. Was also thinking possibly my 2 youngest boys doing it but 1 is disabled and is autistic so not sure how he would cope with that. Failing that I'm sure my brother would do it. xx
Met 2004 lost contact after a few years
Met again 2013
Engaged July 6th 2016
Married July 14th 2018
CommentAuthorMichelleC961
My daddy is giving me away - I just know there will be lots of tears- I've always been really close to my dad but since mum passed away we are even closer- xxx
CommentAuthorAnikaM60
Im not very close with my dad and we have a seriously strained relationship so i dont want him to walk me down, but because im still inviting him i feel it will be asking for trouble to ask someone else. Im either going to walk alone or with my daughter whos my flower girl. My oh suggested we walk down together whicb would be so sweet but i really want to see his face when he sees me for the first time walking up.
