OMG i have just got engaged and want to start planning my sister in law is helping but where do I start we are looking to have an engagement party but want to keep the cost low what kind of invites should I send, what kind of venue should we choose etc please help!!!
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I have 2 beautiful girls 8 and 6
CommentAuthorRaggedyAnne
the first thing is did was book my venue and choose the date. once thats done, everything else happens around it. you cant book anything else without first knowing where its going to be, and the style of venue sets the theme of your wedding sometimes.
there are important things to book of course, but really , once the venue and date is picked, then thats a starting point for everything else.
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CommentAuthorMrsSmee2b
Ty hun im looking in 2014 so I cot lots of time i think? but i kno it will go so quick glad I got my sis in law to help as she has already done this lol ty again! x
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I have 2 beautiful girls 8 and 6
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
I'll bump a thread for you called a brides checklist it has EVERYTHING you need to help you plan your day
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CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
We had an engagement party at our local conservative club. All they asked was that you payed a £20 one off payment for a membership and that there was £300 taken behind the bar at the end of the night, if not you would pay the difference! But this worked out ok because all we needed was for everyone to buy one drink each. We got a friend to dj for £50 and parents made a buffet for us, the most expensive bit were the decorations but we got these off a local market store for half the price of what they were in the shop. The whole night cost around £150 and it was lovely. We made the invites ourselves and only sent them to family, we made an event on facebook to invite everybody else.
Hope that helps!!! xxxx
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I had my engagaement party at a local soccer club, it was £100 deposit and if the bar made £800 then we would of got our deposit back, but for £100 i didnt mind not getting it back :) Didnt have many decs as there was a screen which played a dvd of photos of me & my H2B, was amazing xx
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CommentAuthorMrsSmee2b
yes that helps loads thanks but I've been looking for places and they want £180 + cant get it any cheaper grrrrr and we r running out of time for when we want it for but will keep looking buffet i will be doing and will prob get invites from a cheap card shop and will look at market for decs so ty for all your help every1 and will let u all kno how it all goes!! xx
Cant wait to become Mrs Smee
I have 2 beautiful girls 8 and 6
CommentAuthorbridalmiss
I'd keep your engagement party low key if you can, as you really want all the effort to plan your wedding itself! Buffet meal from cost co or iceland etc, try to email/bookface your invites if you can maybe? Then work out how much you can afford to save each month for your wedding, add up the months and that will help you get an idea of when/what year you can have your wedding - then go ahead with confirming your date and venue and off you go!
CommentAuthorRaggedyAnne
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*note to self* learn to read properly before answering posts you muppet!!!
Sorry i just assumed....without reading ALL of the post, that you were looking to start booking things for your wedding, then i re-read it and its for your engagement......oops!
I can resist anything but temptation
CommentAuthorMrsSmee2b
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lol its for both really but looking for engagement party next month if possible and wedding next year if we can afford it just need to work out what we can afford but i have bought my dress well excited and fell in love as soon as i tried it on so when people say u just know i can now know what they mean!!!! Also how do you do your emotions??
Cant wait to become Mrs Smee
I have 2 beautiful girls 8 and 6
CommentAuthorRaggedyAnne
you have to be a power user to have access to emotions
I can resist anything but temptation
CommentAuthorMrsSmee2b
ty hun will do that
Cant wait to become Mrs Smee
I have 2 beautiful girls 8 and 6