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    • Mrs Buzzlightyear
      CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
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    ok so we have had venue booked a while but just the date no package confirmed!! so we went on tue and went through what we want and how much it was going to cost,
    96 people
    3 course meal
    wine for speeches
    dj
    buffet
    I wasnt having wine on tables or on arrival and was sorting all my chair covers & decs myself
    I was quoted £2389

    but when she gave me the pack with all my stuff in - there was a leaflet in with a unbelievable offer
    3 course meal for 60
    drink on arrival & for speeches & bottles on tables
    chair covers & fairylit back drop & table skirt
    table decs
    DJ
    cold buffet for 100
    AND
    a 1st year anniversary party for 80 guests
    FOR £2011

    well I could not believe it, we can easy cut our day time guests to 60 or pay extra for any over that......
    so I rang her and I cant have it, she didnt mean to give me that, but she would do the: wine, food and dj for £2011, but we wouldnt get any thing else on the leaflet

    I am livid!!!!!!!

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    • CommentAuthorMrs Daltry
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    have you actually signed any form of contract,if you havent then by rights i think your allowed to change your mind
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    • kellyc13
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    did she say why you cant have it? x

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    • Mrs Buzzlightyear
      CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
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    no she said I can change my mind any time I want but that - that offer was try and get NEW customers we have been booked in a while - so I cant have it

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    • Goff
      CommentAuthorGoff
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    Cancel it and get your Mum/Dad/Sister/brother/aunt/uncle to rebook!

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    • Mrs Buzzlightyear
      CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
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    GOFF how sneaky!!!! I like it!!!! xx

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    • Goff
      CommentAuthorGoff
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    Well they dont have to tell anyone your names do they??

    They can say its a SURPRISE!

    All you have to do is tell them what you want and they can relay it to the venue - job done!

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    • Mrs Buzzlightyear
      CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
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    I would lose my £100 deposit but I would make that back on what I would save on chair covers ect

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
      CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    Remind them that you are member of a popular wedding forum and are unhappy with the service. And by giving you the leaflet they are offering that deal- maybe trading standards?

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    • Goff
      CommentAuthorGoff
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    We can set Dove on them....... she's scary when she gets goin - and she wears camouflage VERY well.....be afraid.....

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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    i think they are taking the mick phone them back and tell them you want that offer or you will be seeking legal advice. they cant off you one thing and someone else a much better deal.
    tell them you will look else where they are Pi-ss takers GGGGrrrrrrrrrrrrr i hate it when people try and rip others off.
    just not right

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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    just reread some and dove is right remind them that this could cost them more than loseing just your booking

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    • Jenna
      CommentAuthorJenna
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    Thats well unfair.... i would cancel and get h2b to rebook like goff said, i told cable company same thing....£30 for new connection, but £99 for repair, anyway the did it for £30!
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    • erica the army wag
      CommentAuthorerica the army wag
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    hiya buzz where u getting wed again (beamish)????. go see the mamager or whoever and tell them that u were givin this leaflet believe me if u argue with them u will get this package at this price (customer is always right) lol tell them if u cannot have venue at the price on leaflet u will take your business elsewhere and u will not be leaving it there tell them u will contact head office to sort the matter as u should not have been givin the leaflet as it is false advertising xxhope u get it sorted x
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    • catch
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    no wonder but you could play devil with her and threaten to go else where!!!, l had the mis fortune of reading that another venue not so far from mine was doing a small wedding package, but when you add the extra guests the price nearlt doubles, such a shame that they all have a claus stating that they can with draw from an offer, hence we had to pay individual head price for meal starter, and dessert plus buffet and welcome drink package all charged per head Grrr!!! xx
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    • VintageChic
      CommentAuthorVintageChic
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    I agree with the threatening to go elsewhere, they have given you a leaflet showing you something better on offer and as you havent got anything booked or any form of contract as such yet you're still a "new customer" arent you?

    Come on you're profile pic is literally bridezilla! Put it to good use woman kick scream have a full on tantrum that would put a 2yr old to shame, they'll soon cave if they think they'll lose £2011 as opposed to the £378 difference between the quote and the package (maybe even point those figures out to them)

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    • Mrs Buzzlightyear
      CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
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    erica no not bemish - you could and a 0 to that price if it was!!! church wedding and reception in function room of a well known chain pub

    she has now said she has had enquiries about my date so I cant cancel - this is doing my head in now

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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    ermmm if you havent signed anything yes you bloody can cheeky mare GGGGRRRRRrrrrrrrrrrrr who does she think she is !!!!!!

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    • Relfy
      CommentAuthorRelfy
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    Dont let them threathen you with your date.... scumbags!!! i would def argue it with the manager, Does the leaflet say 'new customers only?' if not then its false advertising and you are with in your right to get it at that price, its not your fault they messed up and gave it to you....x
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    • Mrs Buzzlightyear
      CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
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    no, no terms and conditions on it! it dosnt even say ask for terms!!!!

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    • Relfy
      CommentAuthorRelfy
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    Then its false advertising and you are well with in your rights to get that deal hunni!! tell them its they are breching ' treating customers faily regulations' x
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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    i think the place is horrid hun if this how your being treated now what is it going to be like when you ask for things later down the line?

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    • Mrs Buzzlightyear
      CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
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    well thats what I am worried about now if I am a bitch and demand that deal they might mess about on my day!!!!
    have payed deposit - no where else can hold my guests for that kind of money, so I cant change venue
    she has agreed to do the deal I was getting for £2389 + the drinks package for £2011
    so dont know weather just to be happy with that...... I always roll over in the end!!!! :-(

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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    oh hun
    rock and hard place come to mind.

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    • Kerrylou
      CommentAuthorKerrylou
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    Have you spoken to a member of actual management? If you have then speak to the chain's head office and explain the situation to them.
    If you haven't already signed a contract then technically you're classed as a 'new customer' ergo should be allowed this deal.

    Don't roll over until you've gone as high up in the management chain as you can, and I'd mention to her seniors that she's threatened to book someone else in your day - I see a vision of the future.................her in the dole queue hehe
    xxx

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    • Mrs Brakes
      CommentAuthorMrs Brakes
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    If they have had enquiries about your date then these 'others' would surely be new customers and entitled to that rate too. I suggest you go above her and tell them that all you have paid is the deposit to secure the venue for that date. Tell them that whilst her offer is a generous one, it is not as generous as the offer on the leaflet.

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    • VintageChic
      CommentAuthorVintageChic
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    exactly if she has "others interested" (which i think is just to spook you then if you back off she'll be doing that deal for the new customer anyway so whats the difference? she's trying to extort money from you grrr

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    • Mrs Buzzlightyear
      CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
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    I got it!!!!! everything!!!!! glad I didnt roll over!!!! JACKPOT!!!

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    • Mrs (Dove) Pidgeon
      CommentAuthorMrs (Dove) Pidgeon
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    You go girl! What did you say?

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    • twirler
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    yeyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy well done you xx

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    • Lucie
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    thats great! well done you! x
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    • Mrs Buzzlightyear
      CommentAuthorMrs Buzzlightyear
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    Not alot dove she just gave in and emailed me she has asked me to go down on fri and see the decs and go through numbers as if I am having more than 60 I need to pay for a extra meal, drinks and a chair cover for each guest which is fine!!! am so happy

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    • Mrs Mara Tester
      CommentAuthorMrs Mara Tester
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    Well done you.

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    • Attention seeker :)
      CommentAuthorAttention seeker :)
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    really pleased for ya hun

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    • Goff
      CommentAuthorGoff
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    Nice one honey well done for not backing down x

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    • x~Hails~x
      CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
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    Well done babe :-) never give up ....it always works when you need it too

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    • Kerrylou
      CommentAuthorKerrylou
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    That's fab news! Made up for you :) xxx

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    • Magsy
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    so pleased for you x

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    • debs x
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    Well done - amazing what happens when you stand your ground x
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    • kellyc13
      CommentAuthorkellyc13
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    yay well done hun im glad you got there in the end, well done for not giving up x

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    • VintageChic
      CommentAuthorVintageChic
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    Awww thats fantastic, well done for standing your ground, so happy for you :D

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    • angeleyes
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    yeahhhh!!!! they got a royal kick up the bottom :D i hate companies that charge more for people who plan ahead or those who charge over the odds just because its a wedding. Well done my deary :D
 

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