Wedding Forum - When will it be my turn?...

Ha I feel same, been trying over 2 years and found out recently we cant have anymore :( although they did say we were extreamly lucky to fall pregnant the first time (didn't know of any problems then) so we are still hopefull and will carry on trying xxxx

Your time will come and be right for you two when it does. Dont wish your life away !! Just remember how quick times goes by.....

You both decided to wait so sadly you have to do that or talk to H2b if your not keen. I used to be like that when everyone was getting engaged.... thinking its not fair and i want to get married. I was more miffed when my brother proposed to his girlfriend after a few years and we had been together longer but it was obviously there time and not ours. I feel the same now when everyone is having babies and worry our children will grow up without their cousins around them but then i remember it was our choice to wait until we were married so live with my choices xxx

i feel the same MrsWright everyone having babies around me left right and center when is it my turn, i am making it more difficult for myself as i want to have JuneBaby2014 and i hate waiting and hope i get pregnant straight away wanna stop my pill in the new year to clear it out of my body and get busy ever day twice a day till i find out im preggers =D ♥ X

I know how you feel, I thought i might have been pregnant (on the implant so I know its almost impossible) but i have taken a test and I'm not, i know we arnt married yet so its not the best time (funds and needing to move house and such) but I really want a baby. I have been pregnant a few times in the past but have had to have terminations due to different reasons but now I know this is for real and we are stable then i really want to have a baby. :/ haha xxx

Jordan, with the greatest of respect, you do not know how I feel - at least you have been pregnant.

Well said Nina. Im sorry but i dont agree with abortion and very private to people yet you are flippantly commenting about it on here about how you have terminated babies yet plenty of women are desperatly trying for a baby !! Bit more tact maybe !!

Ive just had a baby but want another one...not helped my MUM!!! has just informed me shes pregnant and due next month!!! (she only found out monday!! :O )

I agree with MillZ and Nina I personally do not agree with the "a" word, I am m against it 100% and I think you do not mean any disregard to any one but the way you have put it it will offend the woman who would give anything to have a little mini me as Nina said she has never been pregnant and really wants to have a child,, each child is a blessing and i cannot fathome how anyone can have a "a" even if the time is not right and your struggling thats just my opinion i tried to put it as nice as i can!!

Well i didnt mean it to sound like that. its just a weird issue for me and i laugh sensitive things off. Its just who i am. I didnt mean to offend anyone but yes I truly do know how you feel.
I know some people do not agree with them, but i feel in certain circumstances they can be a good thing.
I apologise if any one felt offended.

o noooo its not cool!!! lol

He/She wont be Uncle or Aunt...im not into younger aunties and uncles haha...Itll happen tho Nina for you and I bet itll happen quicker then you imagine....time flys...its weird cos ive just noticed all the pregnancys on her and ive gone on FB to loads of pregnant annoucements!!

Congrats everyone!

I know how you feel Mrs Wright im the same when it comes to anything. :)

Aw thats lovely! I think maybe the issue for me right now is because im still trying to NOT get pregnant!

No offence but it does feel like a bit of a witch hunt on this thread. Yes abortion is a sensitive issue but as Jordan said there were reasons behind it. It is legal in this country and I dint think anyone should judge without knowing the circumstances. Have you considered that rather than Jordan being insensitive perhaps others are being insensitive.

I am not saying I am for abortion but being a female in the 21st century I am pro choice and do not feel we should condemn someone for making a decision that I am sure they didn't come to lightly!

I'm not against it in certain situations, as i said. This was a thread about a lady wanting to get pregnant not about abortion and to talk about it like so flippantly was disrespectful

So a victim of abuse should go on to have a second/ third child because they aborted the first?

What about a child who will know nothing but physical pain should be made to suffer as the mother has previously terminated one child with the same condition.

I dint know the reason for the abortions but do know that Jordan said that we would do the same- that she doesn't know but then we don't know either as we don't know the circumstances and do not know how we would react until faced with the same dilemma.

Jordan stated that she laughs as a way of hiding her feelings and whilst it did come across as flippant the trouble with the written word is that emotion is lost.

I just don't think anyone else has the right to judge other people's decisions!

It had everything to do with the original post being that the author is now ready to have a baby. I agree it is a sensitive issue and I do not want to fall out with anyone - especially when it is something that wasn't to do with me. However, I felt that Jordan was being ganged up on. Whether any of us agree with someone else's decision it should not give us the right to bully them and this is the reason I have spoken up in her defence!

Nina you can have my 2 they are 22 and 17 but they are fully potty trained can feed themselves and sleep through the night and the 22 year old can buy a pint haha

Also spending more time with an almost 2year old girl (one of H2B's niece) doesn't help eaither.

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Every woman should have a choice without being judged especially when nobody knows the circumstances, just think it a shame people r 2 quick 2 judge and try and make people feel guilty for what they consider the better option at that time. I'm sure it wasn't the easiest decision to make. I'm not for or against abortion just think in this day and age women should able to choice withoutbeing judge and find it brave jordanA was open about it.