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    • b2bnicola
      CommentAuthorb2bnicola
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    Hi all

    Im a little confused....

    U know when u sign the registra thing on ur wedding day? Does that mean ur name changes there and then?
    Or do u have to do some kinda deed pole thing?

    Im worrying about booking honeymoon - do I get it in my maiden name or married name?

    Cos if it was in married name how wud i go abuot changing it before the flight for my honeymoon?

    Whats the normal thing to do?

    x

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    Happily Married! :) xxx


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    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
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    It automatically changes but u can go on honeymoon with ur passport in ur unmarried name if its very close to ur wedding x

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    • Linzi-jo
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    The honeymoon should be booked in the same name as your passport hun, and as far as I know it changes automatically xx

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    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
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    Because it can take up to 4 weeks to get ur passport with married name on bk n u have to send marriage certificate as proof of change of name x

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    • b2bnicola
      CommentAuthorb2bnicola
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    Ahh and do i receive that certificate on our weddin day?
    The hotel we plan on going too requires our certificate to prove we're "honeymooners"

    Its all so confusing lol x

    Happily Married! :) xxx


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    • Officially Mrs M
      CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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    it changes straight away your wedding certificate is a legal document for that

    I booked my honeymoon in my maiden name as it still has 4 years left on it and didn't see the point in buying a new one

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    you can only use your passport in your maiden name if it is the same name on your ticket ..... some people are told that if you have not changed you name on you passport prior to the wedding but that tickets are in your married name you can still travel if you have your marriage certificate .. THIS IS NOT TRUE .

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    • *KelBel*
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    I assume so,u sign it on the day so think u get it straight away x

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    • *KelBel*
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    If booking the honeymoon before the wedding tho,it will be in maiden name tho won't it?

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    • Officially Mrs M
      CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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    u can book it in your married name and apply to the passport office and they will send you a passport out in your married name but the start date won't be until your wedding day. Speak to the passport office if your unsure if you don't want to change your passport then book everything in your maiden name

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    • *KelBel*
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    That's what I meant,I thought u couldn't change ur name on passport until u had written proof that u had changed it? Ah I'm getting confused now too...

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    • Lulu1388
      CommentAuthorLulu1388
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    We booked honeymoon in my maiden name, better for paperwork and everything to be correct at time of booking. as soon as im home though its alll changing!!! Im a bit gutted im going on my honeymoon as a mrs but on paperwork as a miss.. but better than being stopped at immigration etc!!
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    • MrsLJDeaton
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    I was wondering about this I got my passport last year and it has 9 years left on it so do I wait for it to run out then order my new passport with my new name as it has so many years on it Its new I know I'm not getting married till 2016 but my passport does not run out till 2021 my sister in law not ordering here new one till she double barrels her name and think her passport runs out next year then she will get her new passport with her married name on it.

    Trust sil to want to keep her surname and add on her married name well there surname is unusual and never heard of it before till I met my H2B so guess I cannot blame her she should of thought of it before because doesn't that mean her marriage certificate will have to be changed to as well as her other IDs??

    Knowing me I will want to have my passport with my married name on it so I may not wait till 2021 or 2022 when ever it runs out
    Cannot wait to be Mrs Deaton =D ♥ X

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    ok .... you can book your honeymoon in your married name and can change your passport into your married name up to 3mths before hand in order to do this you will need to have a form filled in by the registrar or vicar.

    once you change your passport it will be invalid until the date of your wedding

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    • *KelBel*
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    Ok thanks lala that's helped :-)
    Think mine runs out march 2015 so I'll be alright with mine because we're not going away straight after and u can update 6-9 months before and get that time added onto your new passport can't u,so I'll just do that way x

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    they will add up to niine months onto a new passport thats outsatanding on your old one .... i changed mine asi had to renew it this year anyway

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    • MrsLJDeaton
      CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
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    Thank you for clearing that up lala now I'm not confused any more so you can change your passport name 3 months before but its not Valid till you say "I Do" Koolio may deffo change mine then but need the registrar to fill in a form to allow this =D ♥ X

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    • SianyCaitlin
      CommentAuthorSianyCaitlin
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    Ahhh, I'm glad I read this as I was confused about that too! I think I'll change mine beforehand so I'll be called Mrs Sharp on honeymoon ;) xx

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    • ceebelle1983
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    Awk, I don't think it's such a big deal having your passport in your maiden name on your honeymoon really. But then, I suppose it makes sense to change it so you have proof of ID in your married name for joint bank account/mortgage things. I get married in August 2014 but my passport doesn't run out til 2017. Eek!
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    • MrsLJDeaton
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    Yep Mrs Deaton on my honeymoon to just waiting to here those precious words got 3 years till then thoe =D ♥ X

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    • Coconut
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    i was confused as well - however will not be changing my passport as still have 8 years left on it. :)
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    • Vickie
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    You can still pay to get a new passport but it will be the full price of £80 (or whatever it is). Mine was only renewed 2 years ago but will be changing mine this year after wedding as it will get confusing to still have passport in maiden name for 8 yrs and married name for everything else.

    xxx
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    • MrsLJDeaton
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    I know thats how I feel Vickie I will just buy a new passport with my married name even thoe I will have 4 years left on it or 5 years cannot remember =D ♥ X

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    • Tori
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    I will be keeping my passport in maiden name until it runs out. Think it should be a lot cheaper to change your name!!!




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    • Little Kettle
      CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
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    I've been married 16 months and still haven't changed my passport. I've since been to the USA on the same passport. I have no intention of changing it until 4 years time until the current one runs out.
    However, it does leave me with a bit of an issue as I don't drive so don't have any valid photo ID with my actual name on it. Generally people are OK and have accepted my passport accompanied by my marriage certificate (which always sparks conversation as it was issued by Clark County (married in Vegas)!

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    • CommentAuthorRachaelC80
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    I have 5 years left on my passport but my H2B booked our honeymoon.
    He booked it in my new name so will have to pay £75 just for a name change!!!!
    Ohhhh well, at least I'll be a Mrs
    :-)
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    • mym72
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    I was lucky as I didn't have a passport, so booked my honeymoon in my married name then applied 3 months before the wedding for a new passport. If you have a passport in your maiden name and decide to change it, it will cost you the same price as a new passport (around £80 or so).

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    • millz090
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    I would have loved to go on honeymoon in my married name but got 3 years left on my passport so not worth spending £80 on a passport name change... but we are taking our wedding certificate and travel agent said that was enough to proof to our hotel we were on honeymoon xx

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    • *KelBel*
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    That's why I'm not fussed about mine, it runs out 6months after I'm married so I'll just apply before and get the extra time that I had left on my passport put on the new one... I need a new one tbh,mines one of the old ones without a chip in,think I was one of the last ppl to get one,then a wk after I got it,it went thru the washer lol..Los it's all crinkled now so I'll be glad to get a new spangly one x

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    • AmyP7
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    I've got nine years left on my passport. So I will be keeping mine in my maiden name till its due for renewal. Just can't justify spending the money to change my name x x

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