Hi everyone sorry in advance for bit of a rant. Me and h2b have decided to change our wedding completely as we were supposed to be getting married next febuary but everything we have chosen so far we feel has been because so and so doesnt agree with this or that and aw it just makes me want to cry or scream, so we were finding ourselves arguing over the things we had chosen because we both knew it wasnt what either of us wanted so we had a talk last week and decided that we would have a look what we would like so we are starting again from scratch we went to visit a perfect venue last weekend and it was lovely so peaceful and just what we would like friendly it is a bit further away from where we stay but i think everyone that matters will turn up. I just hope we are doin the right thing as we have decided to let everyone know that obviously we have changed date but we have decided not to tell anyone anything else about it like venue etc until invites go out 6 months before so we both feel we are makin it our special day how we like it. Sorry does this sound selfish? sorry if it does x
25th of july 2015 i marry my soulmate:) x
CommentAuthorloustew2012
hey. nope its not selfish, always remember the rule its your day so its your way lol. i keep it in mind now. good luck with your planning. xxx
All the ways of my life id rather be with you.
Theres no way without you.
10.11.12
CommentAuthorcakey
no it doesnt sound selfish, infact its what we've just done! I was fed up of trying to please everyone else all the time so we've decided we're having a tiny little wedding with just the people we really care about. Originally we were getting married june 2013 but now we're getting married July this year.
At the end of the date weddings are very expensive and you're only going to do it once so you should spend your money how YOU want to, not to please everyone else. As the old saying goes Those that matter dont mind and those that mind dont matter :)
CommentAuthoriluvcakes
Not selfish at all hun!! Your day, your way!! xx
Became Mrs Robinson 4th October 2012 xxx
Can't wait to do it all over again on the 4th October 2017!!
CommentAuthorJanie
totally UNSELFISH of you, it is YOUR day not anyone else's day, so it should be about what you want!
Remember : To the world you may be just one person,
BUT to one person you may just be THE WORLD x x x
no at all hun ........ we had a bit of "you should do...." "you should have ...." " why have you done ......" but we stuck to our guns and have had what we wanted this has resulted in a few fall out but to my mind the people who don't like things that we are/aren't having aren't people that care about us anyway
I agree with all the above, it's your day so go for what you want, because if you don't you'll regret it & you defo don't want regrets hun x
I'm marrying the man of my dreams xx
CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
You aren't being selfish at all! It is your day and everyone has different tastes so you will never please everyone no matter how hard you try to! At the end of the day it is your wedding day and you want to be able to look back on it and know that it was exactly what you wanted, you don't want regrets about how it turned out. I'm glad that you are starting again and doing it your own way and to your own taste, you wont regret it im sure!! xxx
Got together 14.02.2008
Got engaged 31.12.2010
Will become a Mrs on 30.08.2014 xxxxxx
CommentAuthorCupCake
I think it's a great idea!! ;) it always amazes me why people think they have the right to tell others how to plan their wedding, but they do! Book all the things you BOTH like and stick with it ..... you'll be so pleased you did on the day. Good idea not telling anyone lol that way they can't poke their beaks in! ;) I admire you for this move ...... xx
Became Mrs Lyons 30th July 2011 x
CommentAuthorowlgirl2015
Thank you everyone makes me feel lot better about our decision i think we both feel doingg it this way we will start to actually feel we can look forward to it rather than dread it x
25th of july 2015 i marry my soulmate:) x
CommentAuthorXbox widow
Its your wedding and your marrying each other not everyone else, so do what pleases you two its your day and no one else has the right to stick there beak in.
CommentAuthorClareS
That's not selfish at all. Have your wedding your way for your own reasons. How could you enjoy a day that was all about other people and not what you two wanted? You've done the right thing. Enjoy x
CommentAuthorkrissy905
its your wedding and the day is all about you and h2b making a commitment to each other so should be how you both want it and doesnt matter what other want they have had or will have there own weddings and believe me you wouldnt enjoy it as much if you were planning what others wanted and not what you both wanted xx
CommentAuthorJennaLouise
I say fair play to you hon! It's about you and h2b. Good luck keeping schtum though, I'd forget and slip up lol xxx
CommentAuthormelvis
this is exactly what weve done... we booked the church, the hotel, looked into the big traditional wedding, and fought all.the.time. we decided over christmas that this wedding was not what we want and was tearing us apart instead of bringing us together. it just didnt feel like 'us' so we cancelled and wiped the slate clean and now were off to sunny KOS!! x
Cant wait to be Mrs Melissa Mooney!!!
Hes The Man Of My Dreams
Kos 2013!
CommentAuthorkatielea100
it doesnt sound selfish the only person knowin about my weddin plans is my h2b and my mum his family are far too interfrearing lol xx
CommentAuthormadhen
You are completely right to do this - it can get so overbearing and you spend so much time worrying about how other people will feel on the day, you're perfectly right to refocus back on the two people the day is really about!
lala! xx
Its your wedding and your marrying each other not everyone else, so do what pleases you two its your day and no one else has the right to stick there beak in.
