im due to get married in july but im having big doubts about it now, me and h2b are not talking my fault he's just really doing my head in, his voice makes me mad right now i dont know whats wrong with me. i suffer from bipolar and really bad depression everything just seems such hard work, we have been together for 12 years but im feeling like getting married is going change everything some how, everything is done for the wedding all invites sent out the lot is it too late to call the whole thing off, i cant talk to h2b just cant get the words out im crying all the time. we have 4 kids together and i know there really looking forward to mummy and daddy getting married i dont want to let everyone down i do love h2b with all that i have but i just cant stand him right now if that makes any sence what do i do helppppppppppppppppppppppppppp
im a married women now
mrs carson-moores
i love my hubby and my kids with all my heart and soul
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
nothing is wrong with you hun you sound like you have wedding jitters nothing will change other than your name. you might find it useful to write down what you want to say if your finding it too hard to talk to him? xxx
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CommentAuthorUnknown
everyone gets nerves before the big day. it is only normal. my h2b annoys me sometimes and drives me mad but i still want ot marry him!
talk to him and explain how you are feeling...it will help xx
CommentAuthorekielty(now Trow)
Awww hun, i think we all go through this... Its probably just nerves for the wedding... getting married is one of the most stressful things to go through so maybe its just the stress and the nerves playing havoc with your hormones and the way you feel.
Im sure things will calm down soon.. try not to worry about it and maybe have a heart to heart with your h2b.
I hope you feel better soon..
Hugs to you! xx
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CommentAuthorloubylou
like everyone has said im sure its just nerves. i think we all feel the same as you are at some point. maybe try to explain to H2B exactly how youre feeling either face to face or letter. another thing easier said than done... step out of the parent shoes for just 1 day a week and enjoy 'adult' time. im only up the road if you need a natter anytime :) x
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its just nerves but be careful not to accidentally throw it all away. You are likely to regret it. Try and do things the two of you enjoy once a week minimum and rekindle the spark!
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CommentAuthorx ashlil x
i agree with suzky, please don't throw it all away. Think carefully about what you want and if you cancel it what the consequences will be on you and your family. Just don't want you to regret it hun xx
CommentAuthormummyto2
cheers girls, been thinking allday at the pros and cons but im still not sure maybe it is just nerves, i dont think the mood im in is helping so not making any big changes untill after i've seen my consultant about my mood
im a married women now
mrs carson-moores
i love my hubby and my kids with all my heart and soul
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
its weddin nerves hun! u been 2geva so long that ure htinkin things will change! they wont much hun ure name will and u will be offical a couple in eyes of the law!!
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CommentAuthorMrsOwen
dont throw it all away, you have been with your h2b 12 years, i also suffer form depression so i know where your coming from on that side of things, hope your ok xx
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CommentAuthorDee
your completely normal try and take some time for youorself and if you cant talk to him put it in words and write a letter for him see if that helps xxxx
