Talking about bridezillas ....................I was wondering what the worst things are that guests could do at your wedding that would ruin your day or make you upset, angry, irritated, annoyed etc.

For me they would have been :

Wearing white/ivory
Announcing they're pregnant
Announcing they're engaged
Proposing
Getting insanely drunk and misbehaving
B1tch1ng about my dress/choice of food etc.............. (any elements of our wedding)


What would be on your list?

Family members using your wedding to introduce their baby to the whole family or talking about their own wedding to everyone.

Definitely the wearing white or someone proposing x

Being Misery's and not dancing , going home early. Aswell as all of ID said apart from the wearing white think, the idea of someone planning to wear white on purpose to upset me, but I don't think anyone would doo that, but on the day I don't think it would bother me as I would be enjoying my day to much to bother me.

All of yours plus fighting between family members. The fiancé of my cousin (the wedding I am going to in sept) wore white to my other cousin's wedding...

mrsFarrelly2b i could be in the same boat. My brother announced that him and new wife are pregnant about 2 weeks ago -4 days after she took a test so like 1week into the pregnancy! It hit a nerve and that was the first thing I thought about when I saw this post so know how you feel.

Do people actually propose at other people's weddings???! That for me would be the worst that someone could do, or annouce an engagement. I think that would be really spiteful for someone to do.

It's all the obvious really, but oh god a wedding proposal or someone announcing they are pregnant. the former wouldn't bother me TOO much as long as it happened once the reception had kicked off... and if it wasn't premeditated. have your own party, don't steal mine

naturally, someone trashing the place or fights wouldnt go down well either.

If i hear someone slagging it off as well... actually, i think that would be the worst. i dont care if my decor isnt to everyones tastes. it suits me and him, so keep your opinions to yourselves. Table wine is a sensitive subject for me at the moment as wlel, so if anyone moans about the lack of it, il draw them up a bill and ask them if they would like to foot it. harumph!

I think I'd be ok with a proposal if it was someone close to one of us and was planned with us. It could actually be really beautiful. There's no need to announce an engagement or pregnancy though.

Ha ha, at my wedding a cousin of hubby's wore a tight fitting ivory dress, people spilt red wine on the floor for my dress to mop up for them, not many people danced (but the DJ played rubbish music, not what we put on the list we gave him several weeks in advance), family fall outs we learned of afterwards, hardly anyone ate the cake, SIL was going on about her wedding in 11 months time, the flower girl made a right racket throughout the whole ceremony but SIL wouldn't take her outside (she's not a baby either at 3 yrs old), guests saying they'll turn up to the evening and then not showing up...
But it was still a great day!

Our best man actually stripped at our wedding, and one of the guests convinced my hubbie to do 10 shots of jagerbomb so u can imagine how much fun that was! lol x
Oh and my bridesmaid fell down some muddy stairs completely covering her dress in mud and ripping it .... but she cleaned it straight off and had a nice thigh split for the rest of the day lol

at m fsil's wedding both her and the groom were flashing everyone in the evening, very classy.

I went to a family friends wedding, the sister of the groom had got married 2 months earlier (she'd decided at the last minute with her now hubby to rush through their wedding first and planned it in 5 months) - she was going around showing the guests all her wedding photos! She was also a bridesmaid for her new SIL!