still no way to treat you though hun regardless of her living there ur all her kids she should treat you all the same i would go mad if my mam did that to me xx
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CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
DONT cancel thr wedding CANCEL the nasty guests!!
if ure already sent out invites re sentt hem ' u r no longer wanted at our wedding' invites! then bump so close mates or other family memebers into thri place
have a sweetheart table for just u 2 x
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CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
I wouldn't cancel either honey, just cut out those who are behaving in this disgusting way if you have to. Can't imagine how you must have felt to have your sister and the rest behave that way at your birthday bash and to ignore you in the supermarket, but what an awful way to act! I would be fuming and upset and would have to have some kind of confrontation to get it all out to see what is going on. I would ditch your sister and brothers girlfriend as BMs, they don't deserve the honour frankly. I am not having any family at my wedding but so happy that we are having our close friends there so there won't be any tension just a lovely day. Good luck with it all and keep your chin up, don't let them ruin the best and happiest day of your lives. xxx
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CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
hun take you sister off your contacts on fb ...... that way she cant upset you with things she has posted
These are the pictures she says are crap.. she's taken pictures of them to get them on facebook.. but considering they were free and something I organised for her, I think they are fab!
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CommentAuthormadison_uk
think your sis is talking out of her arse, they are fab pictures think shes got the green eyed monster in her and cant stand to see you happy and settled
CommentAuthorEnny
seems like your sister and your brothers girlfriend are both jealous, cant see you being happy... the pictures are lovely they are real cute... probably she does like them just doesnt wanna say it or give in... you dont need ppl. like this at your wedding if they cant apologize than uninvite them and take some of your dear friends on board instead :)
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CommentAuthorEcoFreak
This is crazy! How dare they be so cruel and spiteful! I would sack them, uninvite them and give their names/photos to your venue so they aren't let anywhere near! Definitely downsize - do you really want to a)put up with their cr*p on your special day and b)PAY for them to be there to try and ruin it?! I honestly can't believe this... In a way I'm actually more annoyed at your mum, not necessarily for not stopping your sister/brothers gf (who are mega jealous b*****s!!) as she might not've wanted to make a scene, but for ignoring you like this! Uninvite them all, and if they dare have a moan - slap them! :) xxx
PS - your photographer looks like they're really good, your wedding pics will be fab
CommentAuthorsarsibob1
Hi melody. This is just my opinion
Don't cancel the wedding or disinvite them yet. A lot can change in 5 months and as they say 'act in haste, repent at leisure,'
I wouldn't do anything for the two 'bridesmaids' in question I.e. don't get any dresses, shoes etc. If things haven't improved there by next month then sack them as bridesmaids. If they are still the same a month before the wedding then uninvite them. I would stay friends on Facebook as although it may be upsetting at least you aren't in the dark. Don't rise to the bait. Stay calm and dignified. They are going for a reaction.
Re your mum. Is there any way you can get her away from your sister and really talk about things. You don't mention your dad but is there anyone else you can confide in? An aunt or grandparent who can maybe help you understand what has happened? If things are still bad a month before then again I would disinvite but I wouldn't do it lightly. Is she contributing at all to the cost?
I really hope you get to the bottom of this soon hun. Chin up.
CommentAuthorGazza 122
I am really sorry to hear ur going thru all this sh*t hun. I have read all the comments the ladies have posted, and am inclined to agree!, you defo need to confront (i know you dont wanna go round there) your mum about this as her behaviour in certainly not on! I would not be able to just leave it!, if someone treats me like poo then i bloomin wanna know why! As sarsibob said above alot can change in 5 months, leave it nearer the time to decide whether you want these awful people at your wedding. I would not retaliate over FB - that would just add fuel to the fire....and do you really want 'everyone' in on your family issues? Rise above it, try to have words with just your mum when you know she will be on her own and find out what the blazers is going on!
personally - anyone who can feel the need to be awful to me like that - doesnt dererve to be at our wedding in the first place...xxxi hope you get to the bottom of this Mel xxx keep us all posted xx ((hugs))
CommentAuthorGemLouise
i can't believe how cruel they have been to you. i would do what others have said and talk to them, confront them!
don't cancel your wedding and as Kev's Angel said dont retaliate over FB, it could cause more issues.
it is your wedding and if they can't make you happy being part of it now or in 5 months then they do not deserve to be a part of it!
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CommentAuthorkimi1987
omg mel, cant believe your family are behaving this way and to do it on your birthday is just disgusting. i hope it all gets sorted out soon hun bug hugs xx
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CommentAuthorMrsMelodyWalker
I'm just trying to forget about it at the moment. I won't confront them right now, I just don't have the stomach for it. Will let them carry on and I'll just ignore it because I'm the better person. My mums at work today otherwise I would of tried speaking to her, according to my OH my mum just wants to stay out of it so she doesnt upset either me or my sister by getting invovled, what she obviously doesnt realise is she has taken sides and she has upset me
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CommentAuthorGazza 122
to ignore your own daughter in the shops and laugh when u walked past......is not staying out of it! i sincerely hope you get all this sorted hun, do whats best for you, if u cant stomach it rightnow then leave it, but i still think you deserve an explanation on her behaviour, and a decent apology. xx
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
If your mum has upset you then you do need to pull her to one side and tell her that although you don't expect her to take side or get involved what she has done/not done has really hurt you and you would like to sort things out between yourselves. As for the sister she just needs a lala slap but I do agree that if you remove her from facebook then it will stop winding you up. You know she is a spiteful cow and will continue to say things but what you don't know doesn't hurt.
CommentAuthorEnny
so true ... if u delete her it can be for ur own sake :)
CommentAuthormummy2Olivia_Lisa
hunny speaking a some1 who recently had similar problems and then had the wedding from hell i would say you and h2b get married have a quiet do and cancel those who are being nasty..........
we had problems with carls family before the day and just assued that they'd chill it on the day seeing as it was our wedding unfortunately that didnt matter to them and it all ended rather badly............ marry for you and your h2b and stuff every1 else just bare in mind if theyre behaving like this now that may not change!! think of yourselfs x x x
