okay have all these fears starting to build up and have to get them out somewhere and I know you ladies will understand. Every two years or so i get the need to move on. so I move house or jobs or something like that. I have a tendancy to cut ties with the places i have been when i do that. what happens if this habit extends to H2B?! irrational I know just kinda need some reasurance.
Dyslexic
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CommentAuthormummy2Olivia_Lisa
it wont because u love h2b, if u do get these feeling tell h2b ur concerns..... u love each other ul do whatever u need 2gether!!!! if ur habits were goin 2 extend to h2b you wouldnt have said yes 2 getting married as the instincts would of kicked in sayin nooooo run! lol ul be fine hun...... talk 2 h2b n explain ya fears then he can help u move past em n enjoy the rest of ur planning. x x p.s if uv bought wedding shoes n not trainers that should tell u something! lol x
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CommentAuthorHappilymarried Mrs G
How long have you been with h2b? If you have stayed with him through your other restless times then i dont see being married as anything different. I guess though that it is worth talking to him, as my friends marriage really suffered later ending in divorce because she got restless in her job but her husband wouldnt agree to her leaving even though she had another job lined up it was slightly less money, even though she would have been happier. She ended up extreamly miserable and it all went down hill. So if you know you have tendancies to feel like this it may be worth discussing with h2b somehow.
Other than that it sounds like normal wedding jitters. Try not to panic to much. Hugs.
CommentAuthorUnknown
i can relate to this. before i met h2b i was moving every 5 months as i got bored and wanted a change! since we have been together 2 years i havnt felt the need ot wanted to!
i would say you are happy where you are in your life and getting married or you wouldnt be this close to it all and you would have moved on!
Everyone has little bit of cold feet and this is prob it! dont worry and just try to relax in the next couple of months and you will be fine xx
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
we have been together two years but we have something we are working towards I have never been this happy
Dyslexic
its spelt wrong
I No! I Now! I Know!!!!!
I am NOW MRS LONSDALE!!
Dyslexic
its spelt wrong
I No! I Now! I Know!!!!!
I am NOW MRS LONSDALE!!
CommentAuthorx ashlil x
dont be silly hun, your marrying him for a reason and your not going to do that x
CommentAuthorljeh92
I think deep down you know you're not going to get bored of him otherwise you wouldnt have agreed to marry him hun. Don't think about it, you will only worry yourself xx
Soon to be Mrs Laura Naylor !!
24th June 2011
CommentAuthormummy2Olivia_Lisa
even the runaway bride (julia roberts) had to take her trainers off sometime....you'll be fine hunny!!!!! ul c!!! x x x
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CommentAuthorTotallyLovedUp
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you arent being irrational hun. you have ben with him for 2 years and havent felt the need to leave yet so what makes you think you will in another 2 years? you love him so i think you will make it work! talk to him and tell him just how you are feeling, I am sure he knows how you have been in the past and will support you all the way xx
CommentAuthorKatya
if you do feel that your bored try to spice your love life up a bit with his consent, buy toys, costumes, games, s*x dice, bed c*ffs, door c*ffs, g*gs blind folds take photos of eachother like this make an x rated dvd new lingerie have fun in every room of the house inc but not limited to your understairs cupboard, your stairs, kitchen ect have fun in your garden in your car on your car in a park woods field beach
anywhere and anything you would not normally try and things like these do wonders for confidence levels too, the whole worrying about getting caught makes it that much more exciting!
Find out who you are & do it on purpose!
CommentAuthorVicky
Maybe you can both move together - If you love him you wanted want to be without him..
I get the feeling on moveing on to different places, but since I found Joe I dont anymore.
CommentAuthorKatya
hehe Katya the s*x therapist has a ring to it huh?!
shame im still trying to build my confidence since having kids lol
Find out who you are & do it on purpose!
CommentAuthor*D*a*n*n*i*
Aww you won't hun becuz u love him Xxx
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CommentAuthorRachie :D
It will only go that way I'd you want it too. I know you don't , you know you don't, and so does Ollie - u will work because you will make it work xxx
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CommentAuthormelvis
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I used to be like that... i used to get this feeling about ex boyfriends... like after 6 months id start to feel trapped, physically sick and like i hated this person then Id be a massive cow and just finish them and cut all ties and leave them wondering what the hell had just happened... thn i met h2b and worried for ages that this was going to happen... id worry that I was going to start feeing how i used to feel about guys... then i realised only I have the control over this... if i dont want to feel that way ad the thought of leaving h2b makes me feel physically sick thn surely hes the one for me!! you say you are very happy, and getting engaged and planning a wedding hasnt made bolt yet!! this is clearly the man to tame you!!! all the best huni xxx
Cant wait to be Mrs Melissa Mooney!!!
Hes The Man Of My Dreams
Kos 2013!
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
Just because you were like that before doesn't mean that you will be like that now. I used to have different men all the time then bad relationships that made me want to move on but now I'm happy I wouldn't even dream about it. What makes the difference is if you are happy or not. The fact that you want to marry him makes me think that you guys are right together and can make it work. Don't worry its just pre wedding nerves.
CommentAuthorsuzky123
dont worry about it. I get into habits too and think omg am i going to mess this one up given that its been such a time... i thought this at 3 yrs and its now 4.5 years woo so im sure u will be fine. I used to mess all relationshiops up between the 2-3 yr mark, in hindsight on purpose.
cant wait to be Mrs Evans less than 3 weeks woooo
start weight 10st 1.5 lbs
weight now 8st 4.5 lbs
total loss to date: 24.5 lbs now need to maintain!
CommentAuthorKatya
me and dean got together march 25 2007 by end of june I noticed during a massive tidy up that he had practically moved in I had just had a bad brake up when we got together in fact it was my ex that got us together but that's a different story, anyway I broke up with him and sent him back to his parents with a car of his stuff. I drank a huge bottle of wine that night to drown my sorrows. I thought I had ruined all other relationship s so wanted to end it before we got hurt too much
The following day I found out I was pregnant
I got paid for spending most of my shift sitting in the office talking about my options with my manager.
We did not get back together until my 20th september 7th when he proposed.
