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    • sue
      CommentAuthorsue
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    hi to everyone , im getting married for the second time , i am no spring chicken lol im 48 , and i havent got a clue what to wear , we are getting married in a registry office , and i dont want the full white dress not at my age , has anyone got any ideas or thoughts that i could think about , thanks alot sue
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    • Jay
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    do you want to wear white or a colour? maybe if you dont want a full length dress you could go for a 2 piece or a knee length dress?x
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    • Magsy
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    they have some really gorgeous stuff in monsoon!

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    • L JO
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    Hi sue and welcome, how about a short wedding dress? Or maybe a wedding dress thats coloured I trawled thro ebay looking at different styles and I'm having Navy and Ivory ( pic on my profile) its my second time aswell and I will be 40 personally I think you should wear whatever you like you can even get some lovely trouser suits it depends what you feel most comfy in...xx
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    • sue
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    think maybe a nice coulour , ie beige dont no weather to go for a suit or a knee lenght dress sounds good , with a shawl or somethign , im only small 4ft 10 lol , so i have to think about what i do wear , nitemare lol
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    • Mrs Steph Lapworth
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    Hi Sue this is my 2nd time getting married as well and im still going for the dress and everything else but im only gonna be 32 when i get married but i would go for something that u like and feel comfy in x

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    • sue
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    thankyou LJO just had a peep beatiful dress hun , thanks for the advice hun xxx
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    • Magsy
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    i agree with steph, it's my 2nd time too. i got my dress in debenhams, very different to 1st time round. there are so many options around, what with the internet and everything

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    • sue
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    thanks steph yes i mite go try a few on see what i do feel comfy in , im not a dress person you see , i do want to look differant , sexy on the day , i wear jeans alot lol , i will have to drag my self to the shop and try a few out xxxx
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    • Mrs Steph Lapworth
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    I got a pic of my dress on my profile and its different to what i had the 1st time

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    • sue
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    yes thanks magsy , i will have a look round ebay to thats a thought , yes debenhams sounds good thankyou xx
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    • sue
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    i will go have a peep thanks xx
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    • sue
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    thats lovely steph , you will defo look the part , its rearly nice , hope you have a wonderful day xxxx
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    • Magsy
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    steph, just had a look at your profile. Love your dress!! :)

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    • Mrs Steph Lapworth
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    Thankyou both i got it of ebay brand new from a shop on there i tried it on for the 1st time yesterday at a dress fitting as it needs taking up and i was really excited but i knew that was the 1 so Sue u will find something honest x

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    • CommentAuthorLara
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    i will be 40 too and it will be my second time and im going for the big dress picture on my profile, but its personal choice and if you want to get married in a suit or something else then im sure you will look just as lovely :)
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    • L JO
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    Hi annegol...your dress is soooo pretty, we are getting married on the same day :-) x
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    • CommentAuthorLara
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    i noticed that too are you as excited as me ?
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    • Mrs Steph Lapworth
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    Your dress is lovely annegol

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    • Katie
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    I will be 37 and its our second time round as well. This time though Im having the big dress and veil and everything.I was 6 months pregnant last time so didnt think I should draw attention to myself to much and went kiind of low key.This time I want to be a sparkley princess :-)
    Steph your dress is lovely I looked at that one at a wedding fayre we went to Its gorgeous.

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    • CommentAuthorLara
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    thanks Steph and LJo i just need to order it now but when i tried it on i just did not want to take it off.
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    • L JO
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    I cant wait,think i'm quite organised so far have got the bridesmaids,flowergirl and pageboy outfits the flowers,church,hall etc booked off to see the photographer in the morning so hopefully will be another thing sorted ..are you having a church wedding? Looks like we are the same age aswell lol I will be 40 on the 11th Aug x
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    • Mrs Steph Lapworth
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    I know that feeling lol annegol.

    Thank Katie just looked at your profile the 2 dresses u have got on there are gorgeous. I fell in love with my dress the very 1st time i saw it lol

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    • Katie
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    Annegol your dress is lovely!!
    I cant wait to get mine or even to try some on!! lol

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    • CommentAuthorLara
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    im 40 next month thats kinda scary cos i dont feel it lol. We are having a church wedding all being well i am waiting on my divorce papers but i think i have the worlds slowest solicitor :)
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    • CommentAuthorLara
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    We want the 4th sept though cos its my mum and dads anniversary
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    • L JO
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    I know I dont feel it either,lovely to actually find someone who's got the same wedding day as me and we are onlt two countys apart aswell ....lol x
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    • L JO
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    we wanted the 14th Aug but was taken then we went for the 28th then discovered it was the bank hol so then changed it to the 4th sept ...that lovely having it on your mum and dads anniversary x
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    • CommentAuthorLara
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    I love the dress you have chosen LJO its stunning have you got it yet?
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    • L JO
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    No I'm trying to lose abit of weight I can leave it untill may untill I order it x
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    • CommentAuthorLara
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    me too with the weight thing she says sitting here with a huge glass of baileys:)
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    • L JO
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    LMAO I just finished off the coffee baileys now on the voddy ....you on FB hun, I've put a message on your profile page to add me if you are xx
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    • CommentAuthorLara
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    i am on there but no friend request on there :(
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    • Katie
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    Thanks Steph I love the second one but wont know what I want till I try some on ,I will be buying it from the internet though im sure.

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    • L JO
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    on your profile page on here lol
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    • CommentAuthorLara
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    cool lol x
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    • L JO
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    just added you lol
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    • Mrs Steph Lapworth
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    I think the more u look around the cheaper your gonna find it katie

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    • Katie
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    Yeah I think so to.I want a proper princess one though all pretty and sparkly. I haven't however tried any on ever so have no idea what will and wont suit me but I will be gutted if the ball gown type doesn't look nice

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    • Mrs Steph Lapworth
      CommentAuthorMrs Steph Lapworth
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    The best thing to do is take someone with u thats gonna give u an honest opinion and also if your still not sure ask the lady who helps katie x

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    i am wearing red "i think" ..... but the theme of my wedding is going to be black and white with a request to all guest to wear only those colours......well thats the theory at the moment anyway

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    anyone here also on FB ??? would love to hook up there also if you fancy it
    just somewhere esle to do wedding talk h2b has just said lol

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    • Kattyness
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    Glad there are other 2nd timers on here who are still wearing full on frocks! I didn't really like my dress the first time round (which was clearly an omen!!) I have a gorgeous Maggie Sottero number this time round and can't wait to wear it! As lots of others have said on here - it's whatever you feel good in!
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    • MrsFlude
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    there's nothing wrong to wear a proper wedding dress but just coloured its what ever yu fall in love with x
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    • CommentAuthorx_moretoknow_x
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    hi, my great aunt of 73years just got married for the 3rd time after being widowed twice. She looked beautiful in a floor length lilac dress and little jacket. you can look good at any age. just wear what you feel comfy in!! xxx
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    • Suzi
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    Second time around for me and im wearing the "BIG" dress and im the same as you Katty, hated my dress the first time round!

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    • MrsFlude
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    yu go for it suzi and just thing yu can put your 1st dress to shame :) x
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    • Suzi
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    Im gonna set fire to my first dress whenever I find it lmao!

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    • Jane
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    This is my 2nd wedding too and people keep saying to me to wear a smart suit but I dont want to look like the mother of the bride!! So I'm going to look for something long, floor length, cream or champagne, not strapless, elegant and flowing, no train, no veil, just something sleek and simple, and maybe a sequined bodice, something a bit glitzy..... I'll keep looking......

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    • lala "mod" bunni
      CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
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    a suit !!!!!!!! i dont think so .....you have your dress as elaborate as you want hun dont let others tell you what to wear

 

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