long story short my fiancee had a baby with his ex when me and him werent together, we found out his brother is planning to invite her to his wedding and my fiancee told me to tell them that were not going then cos hi ex ALWAYS starts fighting with us and we dont wanna fight on their wedding day, well his brothers misses has been messaging me sayin all nasty stuff about me sayin i think im better then her (i dont) but really im not worth being p.i.s.sed on cos shes a million of me, and all i did was post up on face book the countdown to my wedding and she comments and starts on me again, i told her i dont wanna fight, i thought she was my mate but now shes gettin her mates to say nasty things about me too, every time i stick up for my fiancee i get in the sh.it, ive had a fight with his ex cos she was sla.gging him off and ive fought with his mums husband cos he called him a deadbeat dad and now his brothers fiancee has started on me, i cant take it anymore, i used to self harm and i havent done it in over 2 yrs but now the urge has hit me so strong cos i cant deal with fightin with them anymore but they just want to hurt me, help me, what do i do??!!! :'(

oh hun thats horrible. dont you dare start hurting yourself over them, there not worth it. youve got ur h2b and thats all that matters, they are obvilously jealous of you so carry on with your life. i know its hard, my exs parents turned nasty on me and was bullying me but i didnt let them see they were getting to me. chin up hun x

Sorry that people are being so nasty hun.... Hugs and positive thoughts being sent your way.....

yes please i need hugs and positive energy that me and my fiancee get through this, we always end up fightin when stuff like this happens cos we dont know how to talk about it to eachother and rather yell at the people who upset us we yell at eachother lol, but we always are better afterwards :)

thanks dizzydora, ive deleted her off facebook, and she never texts me anyway, i just dno what i did cos all i did was try to be a friend to her :(

aww hunni sending hugs (hugs) think of us we will help you

aw thanks Wawa and vixen ill add u now chick x x x

Listen hun, don't let this silly little sod get under your skin ok? she's obviously NOT worth one tear from your eye or breath from your body ..... ignore it and it will go away. You just concentrate on your wedding and loving your man ok? Leave the playground insults and infantile comments to her, that way you have nothing to say sorry for, and she'll make HERSELF look stupid ( which she doesn't need help with by the sounds of it )
You Take care of yourself now you hear ... don't let her win

babes no, anytime you feel low just come and talk to us, we will get your energy up. as for the messed up people trying to get you down, dont allow them . enjoy your life with your h2b, if you dont want to go to the wedding DONT. No one can make you. if h2b wants to go then fair enough. just relax and enjoy ur h2b. concentrate on your wedding. i know it easy to say this but i know you are strong enough to overcome this because you have overcome so much already.

like i said chat to us if your low.

stay strong, and remember what you and your h2b have, and all those people you have who are there for you guys including us in here whenever you need to chat/rant/whatever :)

he doesnt get on well with her either leighbee but he knows if he doesnt invite her then his brother wont come, so dilemma lol! but thanks for all the kind words girls, she hasnt spoken to me since, shes tried gettin the rest of my fiancees family on her side bi.tching about me to them but they tell her to shut up cos their not getting involved so, its ok i guess at the moment.

x x