Over the last few months Ive had my Uncle, 2 cousins and their families state they cannot come to my wedding for no real reason in my mind. but last week my so called best friend cancelled, stating that a court date has been brought forward to mid August, and she wont be able to attend, not even for the ceremony and breakfast
Am i wrong to dismiss her excise as being pathetic, My wedding is on Sunday, and if anything would be a nice break away for a day and to take her mind of the court case (she was abused as a child and only just come to court 20 yrs later) maybe i am wrong and should apologise for my action stating that her excuse was pathetic, not that she has replied back since, Usually i feel she only ever calls or texts when she wants something, and when I ask, it falls on deaf ears??
Out of all my family, I have only my mum and my sisters family coming, my brother has his head up his @$$ caus i dont like men in that way?? so as a result I feel I cannot invite my SIL and her 2 children, as it could put her in a predicament
But after all this, as far as I care, The people that are making a effort, I love them so much, and my partners family are all coming apart from 1 family invite declined, so makes up for 75% of all the guests attending, I feel so lucky to be apart of my new family and to be accepted within their fold, even after the hard start Kim and I had by them lol
Lol I ranted out xx
One day there was a ugly duckling.........
14th August 2011
This ugly duckling will become a swan :-)
CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
families are royal pains in the bums... not alot on my side came and even ones who did complained all through and left the reception after 5-10 mins. my hubbys family stayed the entire day and hugged me constantly saying they love me and that my family are sh1t :)
at least i have a new family who loves me
at least you have a new family who loves you x x x
CommentAuthorCowChop
it seems a bit odd that she cant make it because her date is mid august... maybe its all getting to her. Like you said though the important people will be there and bollocks to everyone else. x
CommentAuthorSophie Sherwood to b
so true Caz xx Thats even worse than what mine have done in reality, But Im so glad that you have a brand new family who love you xx
As far as my family is concerned, ive taken them outta my addy book and mobile and sorry they can go away
I cant do enough for my new family, i feel so appreciated by them for what I do, but they were shocked when i told a car salesman the truth about a car he was trying to sell my future SIL, he had to get his manager out lol xxx
One day there was a ugly duckling.........
14th August 2011
This ugly duckling will become a swan :-)
CommentAuthorSophie Sherwood to b
well CC i would of put that but was being diplomatic, but yes they can F themselves lol xx
One day there was a ugly duckling.........
14th August 2011
This ugly duckling will become a swan :-)
i know how you feel sophie. you can only take so much, i found out in feb im pregnant after my mum nagging for 2 yrs for me and hubby to start family, and now i am pregnant shes kicking us out, we going to sign homeless register tomos, and she turned up on my wedding day COVERED in hickies and then like i said, her, my gran, my grandad and my sister all left after 5 mins in reception and my brother and his wife left after an hr. rays family were the only ones who stayed the entire time and they have been there for me so much.
its rays family who have been going with me to the council and doctors appointments for support. safe to say my mum will not be welcome in mine and rays home unless she is polite and decent (her boyfriend isnt welcome at all cos only been since she got with him she wants us to move out and him to move in) and she wont be babysitting the baby or being left alone with baby, if she continues picking fights with me she will not be in babys life at all cos ive ended up in a+e one night after a huge fight cos i got splitting pains and they were worried i was havin a miscarriage through stress, baby isnt growing properly because of stress... seems like you always think your family will be there and when you get older they show their true colors x x x
CommentAuthorSophie Sherwood to b
bless Caz, Rays family seems great :-) OMG mum arriving with hikkies?? I'd die of embarrassment, even at my wee age of 21, 21 times over lol
You sound so much better off with Rays family, Im in similar situation with my mum re my son, She loves my son, but can be very abrupt very often and I cant stand that, even when she is around here, she trys to interfere, but dont get far, as i usually say he's a kid and stuff like that.
Good luck on the house hunting, hope you get somewhere soon, I dont know too much about that stuff re council, im too impatient for it. You have a fantastic and bright future with Ray and baby and your family on Rays side, they are the ones who shown they care, and probably will be beside you all in your future. Im desperate for that love, and when Kim and I move, we will be 2hrs closer to her family, and will take us around hour and half, to get to them and they even say they will come to us more, as it is, it is basically a weekend away lol xx
One day there was a ugly duckling.........
14th August 2011
This ugly duckling will become a swan :-)
CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
aww :) im only 22 so i was like omg mum nooo
but hope u have a wonderful day :D
xx
CommentAuthorJELLYBABY
Not a single member of my family are coming to my wedding :( BUT all my best friends are so I'm happy. Its their loss as its gonna be an amazing day and the people I love the most will be by my side... :)
CommentAuthorcharlottelee
the only members of my family i have invited are my mum, dad, 2 sisters and 2 brothers. Anymore than that and it turns into a riot. H2B is having all his family there though pretty much. My family are mainly made up of friends as cant be doing with the hassle of mine
Going to become Mrs Stockman
Got engaged on 26th April 2011
Getting married 19th May 2012
