awww hun i hope ur ok and you set a date again soon xx

Sorry to hear that BD - I hope you get everything sorted and can soon be back organising your wedding! Best of Luck xxxx

Oh hun so sorry to hear that. I hope you are back on the planning rollercoaster v soon. Big hugs xx

Hun I'm sorry to hear this about you! I hope you can get things sorted soon :) xxx

I have hun sorry ... i got hem from the R... ANGE, I haven't sold Absolutley Everything though. x

oh bloody hell hun :( i cant believe it! no wonder ur angry i would be too xxx

awww thats awful hun!! big cyber hugs cumin ure way!! chin up hun! how can any1 do that!! grrrr it gets me rite angry!! rise above it hun, social people will do wat they r meant to do u will prove the allegations wrong then u can put the big 2 fingers up at the nasty person that has doen it!

thats awful, but you hear about these things happening, hope everything gets sorted, take care xx

oh no that is awful!

i took my daughter to the hospital as she pulled the iron onto her hand when she was a baby, and they thought i had done it on purpose! they wouldnt let me take her off the ward, kept us in the hospital for hours before even seeing us after they had bandaged her hand, checked her from head to toe, including in her nappy! told us she needed to be transferred to the childrens hospital but there wouldnt be a ambulance to take us for hours, then said 1 of the nurses would go with us to "take her folder". i didnt even know they were suspecting that as i wouldnt do anything to hurt my kids. i was devastated and completely broke down when the nurses told me at the childrens hospital.

keep your chin up hun as you know you have nothing to worry about and as for your sister she is just warped if she can accuse you of something like this! my little sisters "mil" has reported her to social sevices and benefit fraud as her boyfriend is in the army and comes home at weekends. how anyone can do somethong like that to their family is beyond me, hope your ok as i know how upsetting it is xx

angel ann i know its not nice at all but baby P etc wud of been stopped if every1 did things like this! if u kno wat i mean i kno its awful 4 the people that aint doen owt etc etc but thats wen kids slip thru the cracks

its a very difficult position to be in, but at least know that if you do get investigated and they see that there is nothing to be concerened about then you can hold your head up high!!

as Becky said sometimes things go wrong - and kids suffer - and this will be extrememly hard on you and your family and I know you must be dreading it, but look at the positive - once your proven to be a good mum and dad you hold your head up high!!!

Good luck

EXCUSE me butterfly dreamer lol on a gud note......... wat if u wint he weddin?

good keep strong!! :)

yeah i know what you mean, they have got a job to do but it still hurts, especially when there are other kids out there being abused and not being dealt with properly. social services are not there to make your life difficult, its just the stereo-type that surrounds them. they are only there if you or your children need them and they only had to come to my house once to see my children werent at risk and we were signed off. hopefully this will be the case for you and h2b butterfly but just remember they have job to do and have to follow up on all reports now after the baby p case and others that have followed xx

yes it makes me mad that they never luk into the ones that ARE being neglected etc not just kids but the elderly!!

Well... To be honest i'm not sure!, I've never won anything in my life and i can't see that changing now lol. I'd Probably let someoone else have the prize if J would let me Although it would be nice the details are rather vague.. what if the wedding venue has to be where UKBride has connections with? The family i would like to come probably wouldn't be able to come x

Lol. We can dream eh!? x

lol, well if you dont want it i get first dibs haha, you read it here 1st ;) x

I think that is awful how someone could do that to you. You would think that people would know better than to waste the time of social services as they are under enough strain as it is. Hope you manage to get everything back on track with the kids situation and you sort out another date soon x x

She had the hump because she wasn't invited to the wedding, we never have got on, she's always copying me, doing things i do, When we announced we got engaged she got engaged the day after, When i got my girls christened she found out the date and booked her son in to be christened the same day, thinking the family would go to her, When she found out i was pregnant she was trying to fall pregnant too, i had my first born then fell pregnant straight after with my 2nd .... She did the same, for the attention!

Pathetic i know but true :S

And Thankyou for the huggles :D they always cheer me up xx

thats true! ha least wen she is married she cant copy lol

true becky. hope everythings ok for you BD. Big hugs xxx

We are hoping to re-book for the 29th October next year although this is not set in stone yet, it's the only date i'm liking the sound of as autumn is our Favourite time of year and i'm thinking a halloween wedding would be so much fun :) xx

I learnt a lesson 1st time round mitch! Not to get so excited and tell everyone, this time we are doing it properly and only telling people when the wedding is if we really want them there, we are keeping it all hush hush now, and we will be changing absolutely EVERYTHING about our wedding this time... hopefully we will actually make it the next time :D xxx

aww chick whats been happening to you sounds awful, blooming family! just glad yove not cancelled and just postponed....look on the brightside at least if she gets married now before you ...least she cant copy any of your new ideas!! xx