well said croc!

sorry 2 hear this hun, lots of hugs 2 u all xxxx

Aw BD, it is a pitty we can't choose our family members, she doesn't sound like a very nice person, but I believe in Karma! I really hope the situations gets sorted out for you, H2B and the girls ASAP! Also so glad to hear you have just postponed! Take care!
xx

HUGE HUGS!!
I can't believe that :( What a snide thing to do, some people just can't stand to see others happy. You're a strong lady who adores her family and you'll all pull through ;)
If there's anything I can do to help just drop me a message!
Sending you all loads of love
xxxxxx

Hi hun, i havent read the whole post but I see the bit about you being reported to social services. I know exactly what your going through hun as it happened to me twice. And Im also a health care assistant on maternity so I was very scared. We lived in a flat and the woman above kept reporting us coz she could hear our daughter crying at night. I mean everyone that has babies know they cry at night, especially when they are teething. In the end we had them round to visit us but they could see that she was a healthy well looked after little girl. And becuase I always attended my local baby clinic as well, i had the support from my health visitor. I sunk into depression though and felt like I had to watch everything i did just in case she was listening out for me. All i can say is hun, that the social services are there to help and they only came and visited us so they could see that she was well looked after and close the case. Just try and stay strong for your children. You know your a good mum, and the social will also see that. Lots of love hun xx

Good luck with it hun! Im sure you and your h2b will do absolutely fantastically! I know this is easier said than done but try not to worry about it too much!

I hope things go well and that you get back on track again soon!

We are all thinking of you! Big Hugs to you and your family! xxxxxxx

Hugs hun hope everything works out ok

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yh becky is right 2012 is the best year ever!! but i would say that as both becky and me are getting married on same day hehe

my own SISTER did this to me last year. expect it wasnt Social Services but the NSPCC. the allegations were horrific when I was informed of them the next day by social services (everything gets forwarded to them lol). Only know it was my sister cos she bragged about it on the book of face!!!! yes she thought it was good to brag about it on my status when i was contemplating moving very far away from my family. have completely blocked her out of my life cos of it and we were very close. just shows how spite and childish behaviour can impact on other people. on the plus side, even though we had police out to check on us cos it was a bank holiday and social services couldnt do it anyway. they put it down as a malicious complaint. they wont do anything unless they think the children are at harm bd. hope u guys feel better soon xxx

enjoy getting ur nails done xx

Have a good day hun, hope everything works out okay xx

How can family members treat each other like this! its shocking!

Fair enough if there is a genuine concern for the welfare of the children but just to do it to be spiteful and then brag about it is disgusting!

Ooh Becky that sounds lovely :D,


We have decided we are having a very small wedding now and a large evening reception afterwards, But we are still stepping back from everything for now.
We are looking in to all of our options though :)i'm actually starting to feel much happier on the wedding front :D

On the reporting front i spoke to my Nan today and even she thinks (as well as other members of my family) it's my cousin!
She's always said to me if you keep quiet long enough the truth will be told as someone is bound to slip up and apparently last night my uncle hardly said a word to her when he took her shopping and when she mentioned what was going on he went red! :-/
xx

i dont see how anyone can do it let alone your family!! Chin up though x

She's a spiteful vindictive little mare! She's 25 and acts like a 10 year old

I know my uncle won't say anything as he's going to protect his daughter (dunno why but still), My dad said when he find's out if it's her or not he will soon put them in their place, and my Nan isn't happy at all, The rest of the family are so upset there is no wedding now as they've wanted us to do it for quite some time x

That's true mitch i'm a firm believer in karma i hope it hits her twice as hard!

krisw that is so awful esp from your former sister

mitch, bd - i hope the door kicks her on the way out lol

omg thats lush..... sound like nice wedding vows to me !!!....

lol, im glad your doing ok hun x

at least you have your amazing h2b there for you !!

i paid for the power user, and got them then !! i wanted more chance to win the wedding lol........ dont think i won never mind tho

it would be nice tho ! even if it was just for the 6k honeymoon !

yeah defo... your defo weird lol


only joking hun !!