omg i think my mutha is trying to marry my OH herself,s he is taking over its doing my head in, she ants me to get a harpist and i dnt like to admit it but i am a chav and i told her it wasnt me didnt like the idea she kept going on and on and on about it all afternoon she i shouted at her i think my exact words were " fuck off about the harpist i DONT want one i would rather walk in to the church listening to eminem" so she flipped and started going on about how im not being forced into anything and i never have been forced y am i acting like that she was only suggesting it (about a milion times)
and we looked at bridemaid dresses and the were all nice but prom style and i didnt wnt that so off she went agen u should have this that and the other even thou i kept telling her i didnt wnt that arrrrr muthas
sorry dnt mean to rant but OH just shrugs it off x
CommentAuthorfuturemrsstockwin
whats a mutha? your bridesmaid? x
CommentAuthorShellster90
Mother I think lol!! :) x
CommentAuthorlotbot
yea sorry mother thats how i always spell it my annoyin mother unfortunely u cnt chose ur famiy x
CommentAuthorShellster90
Least she is paying an interest huni :) .... You may think she's being annoying but maybe she's just showing her interest and wanting you to have the perfect day... but just in the wrong way towards you??
u dnt know my mum (luckily), she gets an idea into her head then goes on and on she does not stop and coz she is paying for the church and seys well i put aside this much for u but the church is half of that so i could get it with the rest , it doesnt help that we dnt rele hae that close a relationship xx
CommentAuthorfuturemrsstockwin
lol sorry! i understand now. Thats true it better to have her around to help you out x
CommentAuthorShellster90
Ahh I see :| .... The best thing you can do is talk to her :)
Other than that good luck :D xx
CommentAuthorDaffy
Have you tried sitting down and discussing thingswith her
Daffy
CommentAuthorCupCake
I think you're gonna have to grin and bear it hun, thats why I'm paying for my own wedding, so other people can't tell me what to do! lol good luck
Became Mrs Lyons 30th July 2011 x
CommentAuthormrs linda greer 21/8
try sitting her down n telling her look i dont mind u giving me ur opions but wat u want is not wat i want its my wedding let me have it my way and if she keeps telling u like a millions times 2 have sumthing tell her to p off ull pay 4 it urself and she wont get an invite harsh but it myt be wat she needs xx
CommentAuthorclaire1984
at least she is paying an interest, mine is paying no interest at all :) x
Maisie Moo Moo
CommentAuthorbillybob
My MIL 2b is like that. I dont think matters who is paying someone will always try and tell you what to do! My current arguement is about inviting two of H2B's cousin to the evening do- 1/ I've never met them, 2/ H2B doesnt like them and 3/ we have had to take people of our guest list that we want there so there is no way I'm adding them. MIL is having a strop and hits the roof when people mention it! (she told H2B that we HAVE to invite them) FIL tried to help us out and spoke to her about it- she went off on one and then ignored him all night. Family's hey.
