I was watching friends last night and its the episode where Monica and Chandler are engaged. Phoebe starts going out with a guy that gives her all that 'Early relationship butterflies' etc.
And Monica thinks 'OH GOD Im never gonna have a first Kiss again' 'Im never gonna sleep with another person again' and she freaks out. She clearly loves Chandler - but it hits her what marriage actually means.
And it got me to wondering have any of you had this feeling?!
I have to admit i haven't - I couldnt care less about having a first kiss again, or feeling butterflies, and I really dont ever want to sleep with another man - EVER!
Forum Poll
Do you Ever have doubts.
Does a tiny part of you ever think that you wished you could have a 1st kiss or sex with someone else?
Poll Results
Total Votes:
34
NO NO AND NO Im with the man I love and thats all I care about.
71%
No, But my H2B thinks it and its funny!
0%
I love my H2B and wouldnt change a thing - but it is sad to think that you will never get that feeling again!
18%
Yes. its a bit scairy to think you'll be with one person for the rest of your life - but Im gonna give it a go!!
12%
No I dont think about it but my H2B does and it bothers me!
0%
is soooo happy and lucky
CommentAuthorXLittleMissMe!X
I've been there done it and worn the T shirt. I've kissed many a frog and more and I'm happy with my prince now.
CommentAuthorekielty(now Trow)
Im with chandler in that episode, with the sweating and the dehydration etc when meating someone new! and worrying about everything so im happy as i am! :D x
Very very happy as Mrs Erica Trow
I feel like the luckiest girl in the world! xx
CommentAuthorTotallyLovedUp
i was thinking about this the other day and it makes me feel gross trying to think of myself with another man. i am with the man i love. just the thought of being with someone else doesnt appeal to me and i certainally wont miss that new relationship feeling. what we have now is so much better! x
CommentAuthorJilly17
Yes but I was watching the one where Ross is marrying Emily and he says I Ross take you......Rachel.......aggggh! OMG|! what would you do?
I love the new r'ship butterflies but would never swap what I have now for the not knowing each other. I love that my h2b knows me better than I know myself and loves me all the more!
CommentAuthorRhiannonollie
Oh this deserves a poll too!
Forum Poll
The wrong name
what would you do if your h2b said the wrong name at the alter just like ross from friends.
Poll Results
Total Votes:
17
Do what emily did and continue with the wedding but be pissed off after
35%
stop the wedding and never speak to him again!
6%
stop the wedding - Postpone everything and try and work through it so we could arrange another wedding later
35%
Laugh it off - come on he didnt mean it!!
12%
Go through with it - forgive but never forget and use it as your secret weapon in every argument you ever have!!!
12%
is soooo happy and lucky
CommentAuthorxxhan87xx
lol at the last poll i wouldnt mind if he said something silly like his best friends name or my mums lol but my blood would boil if he said a exs name! :-)
26th August 2013 1pm
The Las Vegas sign
WE'RE GETTING MARRIED AT LAST
CommentAuthorSteph-Hughes-2b
for the second poll, if it was an exs name i would flip and stop the wedding! but if it was as Xxmrsb2bxX said if it was the best friend name i could laugh it off and put it down to nerves
CommentAuthorJilly17
sorry but if he said his mums or best freinds name I would be even more worried! ha ha ha
CommentAuthorsuzky123
u cna still spark things up to keep the butterfly feelings. Just make sure that the two of you do something a little different now and again
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CommentAuthorUnknown
i would never want to be without h2b or kiss or anything more with another man! ever but i have said to him that we will never kiss anymore else or sleep with anyone else and is he bothered about it and he said no...he only ever wants me!
i have only ever had butterflies twice when i first ever kissed someone my ex who i was crazy about and broke my heart and Ed! so i know i am with the right person. even the first time we slept together was amazing even though we were both drunk and it was so special. i dont want it with anyone else! xx
CommentAuthorljeh92
totally happy with h2b and always will be.. he is the one for me and im so excited to spend the rest of my life with him!
Soon to be Mrs Laura Naylor !!
24th June 2011
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
wouldnt change anything i still get all excited when i get a text (few and far between) coz h2b is at all home day now working haha xx
soon to be Mrs Berry 26.11.2011
CommentAuthorAli
First Poll = its not really scary thinking of spending the rest of my life with him, but its scary thinking that i'm all grown up and my playing days are over......but as Jojo says, you have to kiss a lot of frogs to find your prince, and i certainly did and have :-)
Second Poll = I wouldn't be suprised if my h2b doesn't say his best friends name when we say our vows....he loves him so much and is always confusing us both.....when he's on the phone to his best friend he sometimes thinks its me and calls him "babe" then will start to say "love you" as he hangs up.....i think its hillarious. There is a long standing joke between us couples that they love each other more than the girls and if they are able to come to the wedding his friend has already said he'll stand up and say he objects because he loves him more than me lol..xx
Happy to be Mrs Holt, love my husband and love the memories
of our wedding day
CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
1st poll - Its a relief to know I will never have all the first time kisses, awkwardness of not knowing what the other person is thinking, and then that moment when you realise the guy is not a keeper and you are stuck trying to find a way out. I can read Steve like a book, I know what hes thinking about stuff and can predict what he will do in any situations. Besides I still get the butterflies with Steve and the pwoarrrrr factor when I see his bum in a tight pair of jeans.
2nd Poll - There is isnt an option for chopping his b alls off??? (-: xxx
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