Was supposedly going to sign the booking form today for our venue. By chance I asked them to add an additional item to the evening buffet to be told that it is now a set menu!! This has never been discussed and out of the new menu I like 2 items!! I am furious as to me food is a big part of the event and this change makes me want to move venue. I have emailed to ask if there is any flexibility but am I being unfair?

i really don't want to search for a new venue :-(

It is more the fact that this has changed and we weren't informed. I am awaiting my email and hoping they compromise a little.

We haven't signed anything which is going to be the issue however they wouldn't have mentioned it if I hadn't wanted to add an item to the old version. The version we want is actually £1pp more.

I wouldn't say you're being unfair, if you're going on the information provided to you prior to confirming the venue then hopefully they should allow some flexibility as they hadn't given you notice of things changing

They should do what agreed to, you booked in part due to the menu selection and for them to change it and then refuse to keep there word and to try an get away with it by changing without letting you know.
Our venue is so flexible, we can have whatever we want.

Just had an email from the venue. They have a new chef that started around the time that we viewed and he is changing all the menus. The wedding planner at the venue has asked us what we would like and hopefully we can get what we want. I am going to try and compromise with the new menu and just swap a few items out. They are also changing the hot fork buffet menu which we are having instead of a wedding breakfast.