I'm just having a tiara this is my second wedding and last time I had a veil and ppl kept putting their arm round me and yanking the veil down drove me mad and I took it off as soon as we got to the reception you can get some really pretty tiaras that dont need veils x

Im not wearing a veil either (1st wedding also) they look awful on me! lol I think its entirely up to you x

I never wanted one but in one of the dress shops a very persistant sales woman made me try one-it looked awful!

If you want one- get one.
If you don't - don't.

Its your day so do it your way!

I will not be wearing one its my 1st wedding, but its upto you - if you want to wear one, go for it :-)

Oooh tiggs thats cheered me up a bit i thought it might all be funny cos im already married but your friends are right! i should just go for it!

and i think no veil......

hmm.....maybe

aaaah still have absolute ages to go yet so dont have to worry too much about it. but im starting to buy stuff now so its not too much in one go

it's up to you honey! i've got one altho i think i might end up taking it off for the reception altho it's soooo pretty i might leave it on for the whole day! lots of ladies wear fascinators (with feathers or ribbon or bows) and some just wear tiaras. but you want to be happy. why not try some on with your dress and see what you think? x

oooh i like the head band idea,

its ages away yet but with a little one and another hopefully this time next year (hehe!) i want to start getting the bits that i can get, ive already got my dress, had my eye on it since hubby proposed and its so me! so if i can start collecting little bits im going to.

i think i might have to try it all on and see how it looks!

thanks ladies!

Oooh yeah i just had a nose and i love your headband! could you send me the link please, thank you!

thank you!!!

kelly is this a renewal of vows? im doing that too and im not havig a veil

I was adament that I would not wear a veil at my wedding and thought it would look awful but after I had found my dream dress and tried one on to please my Mum I realised it actually looked fantastic - there are lots of different stlyes and lengths and I was pleasantly suprised how it complimented my overall look. It added a traditional touch and Im pleased I tried one on - although I probably will take it off once the formalities of the day are over!

l am too old for a veil so will leave that to the younger brides to be, l do think veils on a younge bride are lovely though! x

i didnt want one, but my friend got married last year and she said if i want i can use her vail for the cermony instead of buying one, i think i will decide once i try some on x

Haha thats so true! after having my daughter its not like im innocent any more, its a tough choice, because it does complete the outfit but then it doesnt look odd if i dont have one. xx

because were having the blessing in a church do you think its required i know some places require proper etiquette?

I'm not having a veil as such, but a big hair thing - it's lots of voile and tulle off to one side with a short bit of veil I can pull down to about my nose - when I'm done with it I can put it back with all the other fluff on my head. It's called a birdcage or visor veil. x

Im am having one I did not want one until I tried it on in the shop and I loved it. We are having a civil service I do not think this matters tho. xx

I'm having a veil but the at the end of the day it's about what you want and what you feel comfortable in!! xx