Turn on Eurovision Hun.... Its bound to cheer you up.... Cheese in 25 songs.... x

cheer up hun!! put the eurovision on and have a good old laugh and open a bottle of wine!! xx

its almost as if ur trying to guilt trip him back home, let him have his time out least he bothered to text back and was glad about ur baby, maybe he just wants a laugh with his pals not end of the world

and if your getting married does he really honestly need to tell you he loves you in a silly text

im feeling ikky too, lol, bug going round on ukb..hehe xx

edited because i dont wnt to be seen over reacting

just want to point out that i have a different way of working things with my h2b and for a guy that hardly ever tells me he loves me i think im entitled to try get him to tell me at least once

i dont see where i was rude i was mearly expressing my opinion and do not see how me being a new member has anything to do with it.
Are you telling me when you 1st joined you didnt express an opinion.

Yes fine you like to check up on him (guessing he is actually old enough to look after himself most over 18's can) but the sexual content of your text message is the part which comes across as gulit tripping him home.

So he has every saturday night out find me a man who doesnt like to go out with his friends?

As for me being rude your the one who has found it acceptable to use abusive language if you do not wish being to comment on your relationship maybe it should not be plastered all over a forum for the world and his mother to see.

I dont see how my above comment was attitude and i certainly do not appricate yours

no im not guilt tripping him home..im merely havin fun with him

i told you to b u tt out..nothing offensive there..........

ur entitled to ur opinion but how u came across in the first place was quite upsetting

dont need to explain my relationship other than its slightly different to the normal typical couples and when he hardly tells me loves me...i just think it would be nice for him to say it back thats all!

maybe if u were the one that felt neglected now and again you would be feeling how i feel so until your ever in that situation you cant go tell me how to do it otherwise..you could have worded ur reponse a bit better and to me felt like you were being rude

i love it when daz goes out, i have a mini pamper night, nice bottle of wine take away & lappy kids in bed peace, yeah i text him to see if he is having a good time & to ask him to let me know when he will be coming home so i know wether to lock the door or not

mike is out 2nite for the night and crashing at his mum n dads so i know to lock the door

but i panic coz u no what men can be like when drunk and do stupid things and all i want is to be told he's safe and a i love you that for me comes round maybe twice a year its like a birthday!! its just nice to hear somteims but obv more people have their h2b's saying it everyday so its not really a bad thing for them!

i never ever would guilt trip him into coming home, he works hard and deserves to go out

and since when was a naughty picture a way of guilt tripping..merely teasing him and gettin him worked up!


anyway for what its worth ill apologise if i was a bit OTT ..my head is all over the place

but i just hope you can see why your reply upset me..re read it and see how it would sound coming from soneone else 2 u

yeh i do L Jo..i say to him most days and he just goes "i know" and he goes i dont have to tell you you know i do..but its not the same!!

thanks for all the other advice ladies :d

i honestly do not see how expressing my opinion on a forum could make me rude etc.

If you have relationship/trust issues then maybe talking to your fiance would be better then plastering all over the internet

I think sometimes some men have a prob just saying it hun...but like you say it wouldnt hurt to hear it abit more than what you do,lets hope the piccy worked for when he gets home 2moro ;-) xxx

i dont mean to upset you - there is obviously an underlaying problem you probably need to sort out with your fiance but he also needs his own time

its coming across you would have him only go out to work if you could.

if someone truly loves someone then 'i love you' doesn't need to be said 100 millions times via text etc you know it in your heart and from the way the other person acts

u no what...

im not even goin to respond any more coz ive already wasted enough tears on you

plenty of people moan about their men sometimes on here..yet i dont see you going and bu tting in their so i think its best if we just get this post deleted!!!!!!