Heyyy Everyone!! This is A Really Long Story But Ill Do My Best To Shorten It!!! My Mum is a drama queen and she has to be center of attention!! We recently went to ireland to visit my bridesmaids, and an arguement kicked off between her and my pregnant sister!! which lead into my sister walkin out in tears, i followed her as she was upset and pregnant!! We have been back a week and my mum phoned me yesturday and asked can i bring the rest of her bed round, so me and H2B took it round!! H2B waited in the car as we was in a rush, i gave her the bed quickly went to see my dad, then said bye and walked bk to the car!!! she all of a sudden started shouting at me from the other end of her street!! She came up to the car shouting the odds at me as usual and accused me of saying some stuff that i never did!! She then got H2B involved by asking him had i said this stuff she he said no coz i hadnt said it!! by this point i was soooo angry i was in tears!!! When we got home i went on facebook and my sister (Who is pregnant) messaged me and said that my mum had said that i blamed everything on my sister which i hadnt, so yet again i was upset!!!! I decided to talk to H2B About the wedding and were debating on weather to just get married as planned or to cancel everythin and do it on our own with a few people!! The reason for this is that every arguement with my mumk starts over the wedding!!! What Do u Think?? Im Confused I Dont Know What To Do!!! xx Sorry For The Longness!! x
Cant Wait To Be Mrs Natasha Luff..!!
Stressing Not Long Now..!!
CommentAuthor~*~ Becca ~*~
tbh she sounds like she's a right silly mare who's causing trouble for no reason
at end of the day tash, its about u and h2b no one else matters..if u want to go and do it alone with a few people..u do that..you shouldnt have to stress and worry about people esp someone thats meant to love you but is treating you like scum..its not worth it..either have a word with her and tell her how u feel or just explain that the orginal plans wont go ahead if she doesnt buckle up x
17.09.2010 ---I am officially Mrs Rebecca Mollins
Twilight - its' like my own personal brand of Heroin...
Edward Cullen - The Hottest Vampire since 1901 !!
I have OTD - Obsessive Twilight Disorder :D
CommentAuthorxlindax
hi! sounds to me like your mum has realised that for once she will not be center of attention! i dont want to say anything bad because i dont know her, but if all the arguments are over the wedding then i think you should put your foot down and say to her that whatever she says or does the wedding is going ahead and if she wants to be a part of it then she needs to button up! i have had similar problems with some family members, you need to clear things up with your sister and make it clear to your mum that there will be no more arguments! you have to remember its your day it should be how you want it! its stressfull enough without silly arguments so if one starts dont even entertain in arguing back, just get up and walk away, she will soon get the message but whatever you do dont change your plans to suit everyone else! its your day so do it your way! sorry for the long reply its just my view but hope i have helped in some way! xx
CommentAuthorJane
I think you should give her some space, dont make contact for a little while and go ahead with the wedding planning without involving her, my mum is hardly involved at all, in fact she has no input whatsoever! You need to concentrate on having the day you want without worrying about family squabbles. When people are causing problems because they like to be the centre of attention the best solution is to NOT make them the centre of attention! xx (Is there anything going on in your mums life which is making her like this? Any stresses? Personal problems? Health issues? Maybe she is just taking out her stresses on you because you are so happy and loved up at the moment and she is feeling rubbish about something? Just a thought....)
CommentAuthorStevie_Dee
Just take a step back from everything. What do you and h2b want? Thats the only question you need to answer. Probably be some form of aftermath by the sounds of it whatever you choose...so go with what you both want. xx
I have a gorgeous husband!
2 brilliant wonderful boys, a wonderful life
in Cornwall. Happiest woman ever!
Now making our house a home. Blessing 2014.