What is everyone wearing under thier dress? I am really struggling with this it is almost like I cannot seem to get my head round what my options are. My dress is strapless. Any ideas ?

I hadnt really thought about that yet - but ill probably be getting a strapless dress - so will go for some nice new pants and a strapless bra :-) x

I can't decide whether to get an all in one body thing or stick with seperates! My previous experience of all in ones are that they seem to move down - which wouldn't be a good look! Also have a corset on the top of the dress and when I tried it on took my bra off and nothing moved! This seems to be the most difficult decision yet!

Hmmm stockings - yet another issue!

Wow - sounds good - can you post on my wall where from! Thanks x

im plannin on wearing a nice strapless bra and sum nice pants. i'm waitin til a couple of weeks b4 to get them cos i'm losing a little bit of weight so i wana makesure it fits right. i cant possibly go without a bra. i'm also gona wear hold up stockings, i dont like sussies but i dont want the tops of my legs rubbing together and getting sore wen i'm hot xx

Hmm. I am quite large on top so hence my underwear problem. I think you may be right Billybob - that is a practicality I had not considered and given that I am already concerned about how I am going to manage in my dress additional underwear issues would not be good in the loo! Am not keen on hold ups - I always find they really dig into my legs! I have a hoop as well so maybe I need to think about keeping this simple!

Eriksfjord can you add me hun as i cant post on your wall. xx

Hmmm i know what H2B wants me to wear lol ;-), i was hoping to get away with bra and pants, nice set obviously, but don't know. Havent picked dress yet, so will do that first and then decide on underwear x

im not really sure, h2b wans me to wear a basque and matching knickers but friends hav told me i will get boiling in my dress so now im not sure wat to do! hav to wear a bra and wanting to wear stockings but may just add them on in nite for evenin do! oh im not sure wat to do! lol, help xx

If this helps Scatty- my dress shop told me basques ruin the line of the dress. I suggest slipping into something uncomfortable and sexy before bed.

I'm wearing a waspie corset a great strapless bra and knickers with Mrs Wright on the bum !

Good advice Dove. Thanks

my dress is strapless and goes down at the back a little so i was strugglin with bra ideas so went for a strapless/backless stick on bra from la senza i hope its ok with the dress, xx

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probably a corset but since don't have the dress yet not sure

Eriksfjord have you considered those 'stick on' bras? I too am struggling as my dress is a strapless corset so will be extremely tight fitting but I don't want to not wear a bra so these have been recommended to me...

Hi Bex - thanks for the idea I think I would constantly panic it was going to fall off! If nothing else this discussion has made me feel like I am not the only person with this dilema. Having had all the BM's round yesterday for a get together and make up trial (photos on wall!) I think I need to go for a strapless bra and a decent pair of knickers for while I am wearing my dress. I have another dress in case I want to change and I will def need hold in knickers for that. One of my BM's is going to take me shopping! I have really appreciated everyone's comments on this as I really didn't know where to start. xx

Hi Eriksfjord, the sticky on bras won't fall off, i had one for my friends wedding. it was a little bit uncomfortable though, i'd recommned trying one for a day before your wedding so you can see what it feels like and then take it from there. most of them come with a couple of sets of the sticky pads too :) x

Ladies.

If you are going for a strapless bra.. buy one that is a size smaller in the back.
When you try your dress on, if it feels like your dress is falling, its your bra thats moving not the dress. If you getting a smaller back it sort out the problems and it wont move xx

I have a strapeless dress too....but have big boobs (all mine i might add...lol) any suggestions on where to get very very pretty bra and panties would be most welcome ladies please! :D x

Thx Joolsy... xx