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    • CLG93
      CommentAuthorCLG93
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 5th 2014
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    this is our last cycle ttc before we marry 2nd august next year.. bit gutted it hasn't happened yet as first baby was a surprise!
    not sure when to start again.. my dress hasn't got much leeway for being let out if I had a bump.. im hoping that I wouldn't be too bloated if I was around 12 weeks! any advice, im really sad about stopping for a while!

    Cant wait to become Mrs C Glover!
    2nd August 2015 <3

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    • DonnaH39
      CommentAuthorDonnaH39
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 5th 2014
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    It's hard to say to be honest as it depends on how you are in your pregnancy, some people seem to bloat straight away whereas others never seem to get a bump at all. Best thing to do is to go by what you were like with your first pregnancy... but even then each one is different.


    If you are really sad to stop, why don't you carry on and if you fall pregnant change your dress? If you fell pregnant this cycle then you can't guarantee that you would have lost your baby weight by the wedding




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    • CLG93
      CommentAuthorCLG93
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 5th 2014
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    I can only go by my last pregnancy where I had a small bump at 16w, im not concerned about loosing the weight I had no troubles last time as I didn't gain much other than the bump.. I know pregnancies aren't the same but im hopeful lol.
    I wont be able to change my dress without buying a new one as its already ordered.

    Cant wait to become Mrs C Glover!
    2nd August 2015 <3

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    • almost a year wife!!
      CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
      Got married 6 years ago
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    If your dress doesn't have leeway of stop trying altogether right now! Why rush to have a 2nd baby xxx

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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Aug 5th 2014
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    I agree with the above, why the rush and desperation? Unless youre like, pushing 40 or summat? just seems like an unnecessary stress for something that could be started again a few months/year down the line x

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    • CLG93
      CommentAuthorCLG93
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 5th 2014
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    I just wanted a close age gap I guess, ive been wanting another since my lo was 6m but h2b wasn't ready at the time then when he proposed he said he wanted another, we didn't intend to get married ad year after getting engaged lol! xx

    Cant wait to become Mrs C Glover!
    2nd August 2015 <3

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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Aug 5th 2014
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    How old is the little one now? x

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    • CLG93
      CommentAuthorCLG93
      Got married 5 years ago
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    hes 19months. so I know hes not going to be that much older but I always imagined ad maximum of 2 years between my kiddies!
    maybe ill have number 2 and 3 close instead haha xx

    Cant wait to become Mrs C Glover!
    2nd August 2015 <3

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    • Velcro
      CommentAuthorVelcro
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Aug 5th 2014
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    Hahahaha you're gunna be busy :) that's not too bad a gap though, even if you left it until after the wedding xx

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    • CLG93
      CommentAuthorCLG93
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    I don't mind being busy haha, my auntie has 8. ranging from 21years-5months lol!

    Cant wait to become Mrs C Glover!
    2nd August 2015 <3

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    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Aug 5th 2014
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    I have 3 girls, 8-5 and 3 with my ex partner and we've recently found out we're about 6 weeks pregnant, and this is h2b's first baby ... with 5 weeks to the wedding so I've been worrying about the dress...I do get slight bloating at certain points of the day but majority fine ... So I'd say definitely pick it up again maybe just before...ours happened quicker than we expected, literally two days after coming off the pill but we're very excited . All my three other pregnancies were pretty similar,no bump til around 17ish weeks and always measured small...may have a tank this time never know lol as h2b is tall and was 9lb something at birth....really hoping smaller tho lol

    Good luck xx

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    • CLG93
      CommentAuthorCLG93
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    I wasn't expecting our first to be so big he was 8lb 9 lol .. my bump was huge but im only a tiny size 6. I didn't look pregnant from behind at all, people were shocked when I turned round. I worry about getting big earlier. think we will start again around june next year! I doubt it'd happen quickly lol xxx

    Cant wait to become Mrs C Glover!
    2nd August 2015 <3

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    • *KelBel*
      CommentAuthor*KelBel*
      Got married 6 years ago
      Posted: Aug 5th 2014
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    You never know, stay calm about it, normally happens when you're not thinking about it...probs why it was so quick with us as I thought at least a few months x

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    • almost a year wife!!
      CommentAuthoralmost a year wife!!
      Got married 6 years ago
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    Lol you can't plan life like that chick, it will happen when it happens... We've to delay our making plans until this time next year, I'm gutted but such is life x

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    • CLG93
      CommentAuthorCLG93
      Got married 5 years ago
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    I think because in my head our first came so quick I thought we wouldn't have a problem! I don't mind so much, just a tad sad that weve gotta wadit lol!£

    Cant wait to become Mrs C Glover!
    2nd August 2015 <3

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    • DonnaH39
      CommentAuthorDonnaH39
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 10th 2014
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    I know how you feel, we had a bit of a scare a few months back (we weren't planning on trying until after the wedding) but when we found out we weren't pregnant we were a little disappointed and did think about trying before the wedding.... when we decided actually it's best to wait I felt the same. But one thing at a time I suppose




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    • CLG93
      CommentAuthorCLG93
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 10th 2014
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    this is our last month of trying.. and im 1dpo so we shall see lol!

    Cant wait to become Mrs C Glover!
    2nd August 2015 <3

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    • Teresa
      CommentAuthorTeresa
      Got married 5 years ago
      Posted: Aug 10th 2014
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    good luck xx
 
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