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    • NicolleR45
      Posted: Oct 17th 2016
    Hi ladies

    I'd really appreciate your help as I'm umming and ahhing over friend issues!
    A couple of months ago my sister who is organising my hen do messaged the 22 girls and said what the plan was. Since then I have run into trouble with one of my friends who doesn't seem to say anything nice about the wedding (because she is jealous, truth!) and so I have a bit of a problem with having her at the hen do.
    It would however be weird if she wasn't there.

    I think my sister is looking at houses to hire (because that's what I wanted) for a weekend hen do and a lot of them take up to 20 so she is already kind of hoping I'll cut a couple of people. But I don't know what to do. She's already invited and i'd feel bad uninviting her but part of me only thinks she wants to be there because otherwise she'll feel left out, not because she actually wants to be there for me.
    • StaceyH989
      Got married 3 years ago
      Posted: Oct 18th 2016
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    Hi Nicolle,

    I am sorry your friend is acting like this. You never know how people are going to react when things like this happen unfortunately. My advice to you would be to sit down with her before the hen weekend just you and her and talk to her about everything and get it out into the open. She could be jealous because she wants to be there for you but just doesn't know how.
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