"I have never been to a wedding in my whole life and now all these weddings at once, I dont feel like I can get excited, it doesnt feel as special" - Well you only have to worry about our wedding, its not like you even have to think about the others "But the thing is I still know that they are there. There isnt anything to look forward too. 3 close family weddings withing 3 months of each other, by the time it is our turn it will be, just another boring wedding"
Over the BH me and OH have had a few D&M's about our wedding. It turned into an all out 11pm-4am heated discussion :-(
Thing is I can totally see his point (I have often thought that I want to put as much time inbetween the in-laws days and ours) but I am devistated, my date is perfect, I feel ready, our plans and themes have been nailed. I am so excited about it that I keep getting goosebumps.
However after last night, I am wobbling. Part of what he has said I agree with and it has got me thinking.
Now I cant help but feel sick with upset and confusion :-(
CommentAuthorAtaraxia
Don't worry!!! It gets a said a lot of times on here that it'll be perfect because it's YOUR DAY and those who love you and care about you both will enjoy themselves no matter what.... it's so true!
No such thing as a boring wedding... plus because you get to go last, you will see first hand what didn't work at the other two weddings, what guests did enjoy and didn't... when entertainment is needed most etc! You'll be fine, don't worry! x
Got married 27th June and blessed on July 5th 2012
Finally Mrs M :3
Love, love... Here we are.
CommentAuthorStave
I am trying not to let it get to me, have Big SIL2B wedding on 21st May, then she is having an evening reception on 18th June, little SIL2B on 20th Aug and MIL2B renewal on 1st Oct.
I actually feel sorry for OH as he really opened up last night about how he feels and I didnt really have a clue that he was so upset about it :-(
CommentAuthorAtaraxia
I see what he means but you really will be okay! Don't let it get to you honestly... your wedding day will be beautiful and special and you will love it regardless of who or what has happened... because it's tailor made for you and h2b!
It's understandable that he's worrying, does he think because there are so many close together you will be judged based on the other weddings?
Got married 27th June and blessed on July 5th 2012
Finally Mrs M :3
Love, love... Here we are.
CommentAuthorStave
He isnt worried about being judged, he just cant get excited as there are too many and there has also been upset within the family about it. He said that he cant get excited about them all but wants too.
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorStave
She decided for a couple of reasons, she originally wanted to get married June, but the register office was booked so they went for May. Then she went to book the reception venue and it was booked in May so she decided to do an evening reception in June. InMay she is having the resister offic ethen we are going for a meal.
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
hmmm thats a bit unusual lol i wud stay wiv ure date hun x
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorStave
Think it is a way that she can get 2 weddings for the price of one! lol I am really fussy with numbers and dates and teh only other date I would change to would be 28,29 or 30th Dec 2012
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
hmmmm the only thing about an xmas weddin is that theres alot goin on around then etc etc! i say stick to date
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorx ashlil x
id stick to your date as well hun, dont worry about whats going on around you and enjoy planning your day x
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
ure hubby will start to get excited after his sisters hun!!
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorStave
Just had an email from him. We are going out for dinner tonight, with a pen and paper! lol
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
lol hahah tell him to chill lol it be rite
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
CommentAuthorKatie
We have 2 other weddings in our family this year I was a little upset when I heard as ours is the last but I jokingly said well you always save the best till last and it cheered me up lol it xxx
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