Ok here it is, I'm quite quirky and love dying my hair and at the mo its bright orange and I mean bright, and I love it but even I get a shock sometimes when I look in the mirror lol. And people keep asking me if I'm staying that colour for the wedding -even my hair dresser. I keep saying to people that I'm not a normal bride and that I am quirky, and my hair was ginger when I brought my dress -not as shocking as it is now but they don't sell my old shade any more grr. But I'm having second thoughts, I asked my H2B the other day what his favourite hair colour on me was and he answered light brown like when we first started dating (thank god he didn't say blonde as I did that for awhile to get ride of black hair lol) only thing is that I don't know if he means my natural hair colour or not, as I hate it and there's no way I could get back to that colour in time for the wedding, and I can't use a stripper as it doesn't work on my ends due to how much I've dyed it in the past.
So I'll put up a couple of pics -my hair now, my hair then, hair from a special date and the ginger and see what you guys think.
(my other problem is that I get bored with my hair style/colour soooo easily, and since I've been growing it there's not a lot I can do to stop myself from being bored with it, I've had a fringe put in and gone from black to blonde/brown ends to almost completely blonde to orange in the space of six months ha ha, but thankfully my hair bounces back really quickly from dying the hell out of it. and Image one should say that I'm on the left but my brain wasn't connecting to my fingers apparently lol
Thanks ladies

ok, for starters i am just as bad as you for dying my hair the most vibrant colour i can find haha so i may be bias. but i must admit orange really suits you. As people already know your quirky i dont think they would be expecting you to have a normal colour on your hair for your day as they would think well thats unlike her. it's entirely up to you but i defo like the orange. (and i have just dyed mine from black then to blonde then to orange then back to red as i missed it too much.)

I asked the same question to my partner the other day (my hair is a dark purple) and i wasn't expecting the answer i got,
He answered, no don't change it, just remember to dye it just before the wedding to hide your grey hair though,........ Eh thanks a bunch babe haha x

I thought this was going to be another tanning question when i read the title.

I like your hair in the ginger photo, so compromise could be going that colour, still bold and a bit different without scaring the grandkids in 50 years time!!

im always dyeing my hair between purples and reds but ive promised ill be chocolate brown for our wedding! i think the brown look lovely on u but if u feel more comfortable with another colour, go for it! x

I'm really torn, clearly the orange reflects your personality, but if you think you'd be more comfortable with the brown then... I dunno, I think you just need to go with what your gut tells you. Do you get bored of your hair colour quite quickly and change it alot? If that's the case then I'd be tempted to say go for a more neutral colour, it doesn't have to even be your natural colour, if you're predominantly orange though, and you like it like that then... yeah go for it. Ah see, I'm torn lol!

i like the light brown too though im not sure how you can get back to that colour

LOL whoops sorry I didn't mean to put you off in that way. I know how you feel though 5th element is the only thing I can stand milla jovovich in, absolutely despise her in the resident evil films. But anyway! Hope the dying goes well :)

Well I think I need another layer of dye of my fringe as that is where it was most orange as its slightly tinted auburn on the fringe, but I'll see in the morning. What do you think?

That's some stubborn orange! Looking good though, maybe for the next coat try an ashy hue to dull down the orangeness a bit? Natural light will give you a better idea :)

Love the ginger, but maybe brown for the day as you will be looking at your photos when your sixty what will you think then xx

I know the feeling! I had bright red hair and decided to get it nearest to my natural colour as possible, I bought a hair stripper and it went pretty orange! It's stubborn to get out, but i like the brown with the orange tint of your hair! :) x