me and h2b went for a weekend away in manc to visit his family for his sisters 18th birthday plus we can make it romantic night away to and things was goin great ... everyone enjoying thier night h2b even made up with his father (my fil)after a year of arugments which really made us happy. also we was meant to all be goin for a drink to get to know each other as didnt talk to me at the party only h2b.
he came this afternoon to pick us up and then tells h2b that he doesnt want to go for drink and that they will just go for car ride in his car and chat but am not invited it turns out so am left on my own (so i sat in our car for an hour on my own) when he drops him off he just sed he will talk to me at the wedding ..... i have never really properly met him and i find it weird that his doesnt want to talk or get to know the person thats marring his son in less then 10 weeks.
oh also turns out that someones been telling is gran thats his not seen in years that am preggies :S dont know how thats come about plus he tells h2b in car when am not there that he think that hes rushing in to it we been together for a few years now and lived togther for a year hows that rushing?

am i really that bad of a person? what have a done wrong? feel really bad and down at moment but dont want to come between h2b and his dad

on top of that i got to spend about 3 hours properly together with h2b most of the weekend plus when we was asleep (not thats i got to see him)... so much for a romantic weekend :(

I would be fuming! I know it's easier said than done, but try not take it personally. He sounds like a total kn0bhead and if he has been feuding with your h2b for a year, he sounds like the type of bloke who is always falling out with people. You are definitely not a bad person, infact you are quite the opposite. I would of kicked of there and then and given him a piece of my mind. I can't understand why your h2b didn't go off on one as it really isn't acceptable to have left you in the car for an hour when you were supposed to be getting to know his Father.

babes, i think FIL2B's behaviour is absolutely appalling! how rude and unkind can someone be!! I would uninvite him to the wedding if it were me. He sounds a real jerk,your much better off with out him. x x x

If H2B and his dad have been having problems for a while it was important that they spend some quality time together to sort things out, I wouldnt take it personally hun, you just werent the priority on this occasion. It was more important for you H2B and his dad to be on their own, his dad might not have felt comfortable talking about private family matters in front of someone he doesnt know yet. It will take a bit of time for you to 'bond', you havent had the chance to meet properly and his dad hasnt really had the opportunity to get to know you, and this occasion was perhaps not the best time, they had bridges to build first. Give it time and dont push it, he is most probably as unsure about you as you are about him, just be pleasant and give it time to sort itself out. I think dizzydora is over-reacting a little - dont uninvite him! That is not constructive at all and doesnt take into account the background to all this.