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    • clareabella
      CommentAuthorclareabella
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    I BOOKED MY VENUE AT MY LOCAL FOOTBALL GROUND ALL PAID FOR AND BEEN BOOKED 2 YEARS ...
    I GOT A PHONE CALL OFF MY NAN SAYING DO U KNOW THERES A FOOTBALL MATCH THAT DAY ONLY A FRIENDLY
    THE CATERING MANGERS NEVER CONTACTED ME TO INFORM ME ... I WENT DOWN IN PERSON LAST FRIDAY AND TO BE TOLD OHH EVERYTHING WOULD BE FINE .. THEN MONEY I RECEIVE A PHONE CALL OFF THE CATERING MANGER SAYING U CANT HAVE THE ROOM U HAVE BOOKED DUE TO MATCH DAY REGULATIONS MMM I WAS FUMING UP SET THINKING OHHH GOD WHAT IAM I GOING TO DO MUM RANG THEM AND BALLED THEM OUT ON THE PHONE DIDNT GET NO JOY SO I RANG THEM TOLD THEM I WANT A FULL REFUND OF WHAT WE HAVE PAID ... EVENTUALLY I DID GET MY FUNDS BACK AND A HAPPY ENDING

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    • Linzi-jo
      CommentAuthorLinzi-jo
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    Oh no hun, that is so bad of them! Have you found somewhere else to have your reception then? xxx

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    • Little Kettle
      CommentAuthorLittle Kettle
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    Massive WTF?! Seriously? How can they do this? You had a contract etc., surely? Glad you got your money back, but tbh, that's really besides the point. With just 3 weeks to go, how do you go about finding another venue, and then let all of your guests know the new venue? Oh babe, I wish you all the best and I truely hope youp find somewhere else. If there's anything we can help with, just holla x x x

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    • clareabella
      CommentAuthorclareabella
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    YEH I HAVE MANAGED TO GET ANOTHER VENUE BUT ITS A SMALLER ROOM BUT THE OWNERS ARE VERY NICE AND COULDNT HELP ME ENOUGH THEY BENT OVER BACKWARDS TO HELP ME AND SAVED 500 POUND AND MANAGED TO EVEN PUT ARRIVAL DRINKS ON WHICH COST ME 40 POUND THE GOLF CLUB IS NICE JUST A GOOD JOB I FOUND SOME WHERE OR IT WOULD BE FISH N CHIPS HAH AND A PINT LOL

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    • Heather
      CommentAuthorHeather
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    Jesus how can they do that, take your money and not even inform you. I'm not surprised your upset. This close to the wedding you should be of peace of mind everything is done.
    Have you thought what your going to do.???
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    • clareabella
      CommentAuthorclareabella
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    IVE GOT ANOTHER VENUE AT A GOLF CLUB

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    • clive
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    Err. Sorry hun, but could you lose the caps? Xx
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    • HelenW
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    Jeez how awful! Glad you found a new venue :) hopefully it will be better! xx

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    • TotallyLovedUp
      CommentAuthorTotallyLovedUp
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    thats disgraceful!!!!!! so glad for you that you got your money back, but seriously its such a p*** take! on the plus side you have saved some money with your new venue and they seem to be fab! hope you both have an amaizing day xx
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    • JulieW20
      CommentAuthorJulieW20
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    Lol clive. I'd demand compensation- take it to the papers otherwise, what a disgrace three weeks to the big day and doing that to you- surely there has to be something more besides refund that they owe you? As pointed out, your guests have to be informed of change of venue, you have to settle for smaller and not what you wanted and have been planning and dreaming of for 2yrs. I'd make the biggest fuss ever and tell them that they need to get their lawyers to come to an appropriate sum to cover your stress, loss and additional costs. So you've saved 500, you've also been given the biggest load of stress 3weeks before big day and it's not good enough. What if you'd been unable to find new venue???!!! xx
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    • Heather
      CommentAuthorHeather
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    Glad you have sorted it and got the golf course. x
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    • FitchMcCombe
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    so glad you managed to get the golf view - disaster averted!! x
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    • clive
      CommentAuthorclive
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    Absoloutley! Disgraceful behaviour
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    • jodie b
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    Jeez I can't believe they did that! Am so pleased it's all worked out well for you xx

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    • Tsukijin
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    Clive Lol. That venue is a disgrace. Name and shame in your local area. Then like Julie said, make a MASSIVE stink about it

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    • fiona
      CommentAuthorfiona
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    Thats disgusting! Definately make a noise about it!!! So lucky to get the golf club with only three weeks to go
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    • clive
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    Alternatively, you could try rangers Football Club- I think they need the money! lol:o)

    Seriously, glad you got things sorted xx
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    • clareabella
      CommentAuthorclareabella
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    i know iam sure some 1 up there is looking out for me talk about luck

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    • InDreamland
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    OMG!! Glad you got it sorted but seriously, they are a disgrace! I'd be having a major bridezilla moment!
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    • RaggedyAnne
      CommentAuthorRaggedyAnne
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    Makes me wonder what would have happened if your nan hadn't told you about the match!
    You'd have all turned up to be shuffled off to another room.
    So glad you got your money back , but I for one wouldnt have wanted the hassel this close to your wedding.....I know you had no choice but how horrible to have to have that stress.
    Was you able to contact all your guests about the new venue?

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    • JonathanM14
      CommentAuthorJonathanM14
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    Typical football club mentality. NEVER ever choose a football club or rugby club particularly local ones as a venue for everything, the football ALWAYS takes over and surprisingly always seem to have something going on alongside the date you have booked it. If you went ahead you would probably have footballers coming in and helping themselves to the buffet1!!! They really are that bad.
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    • clive
      CommentAuthorclive
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    Absoloutley spot on, Jonathan! Always got to a specialist venue who are dedicated. Football is football, weddings are weddings.:-)
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    • loustew2012
      CommentAuthorloustew2012
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    glad you got another venue arrange, thats just shocking what they did and im glad they gave you your money back.

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    • minnie11061990
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    OMG can't believe they did that. Hope everything else goes ok. x

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    • Bobsi
      CommentAuthorBobsi
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    wow. thats dreadful.
    glad you got it sorted. x

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    • clareabella
      CommentAuthorclareabella
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    iam totally fed up with all the stress bridesmaid was suppose 2 go 4 there dress final fittings this moment and 1 of the answers ohh u didnt let me know ermmm yes i did i rang u in the week grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

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    • Chelz3110
      CommentAuthorChelz3110
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    it was nice it turned out ok with a venue, quite often we hear of things going bad and people being stuck etc.

    :)

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    • Officially Mrs M
      CommentAuthorOfficially Mrs M
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    thank goodness you found another venue, you really don't need the stress i would contact the citizen's advise and ask them if they think you are entitled to compensation, get a good honeymoon out of them that way, they are out of order and breaching there contract with you that you have had in place with them for 2 years and 3 weeks before the wedding they ring you! i mean WTH!?!?!?!

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    • natalie2614
      CommentAuthornatalie2614
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    Oh my god how can they just do that, thank god your nan told you otherwise who know what would have happened on your day! Glad its all sorted but Id be definitly naming and shaming them!

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