I just dont understand my h2b, Hw hates his job and so do I (we both work at the same supermarket) but we don't have the money for him to just quit, he wants all these different cars and wants them modifying, but has decided after the wedding he is just going ti quit cos he can't stand it anymore. However when he applied for a job just over a year ago they offered him a interview, he wouldn't go because he's never had am interview (his brother got him his current job 8 yeats ago). He asked me to do his cv as he hadn't had one of those either and then wonders why i get mad when he's jusy going to quit, we have a daughter who os two on boxing dad and is going through clothes as if they r paper.
His mum has always done everything for him and even though we have lived together for 3 years still can't understand why I dont. I did used to because I thought if I didn't he would leave. me. I'm already worried about how I'm going to look on the wedding day cos i wasn't yhe first in line on the looks line nor the brains.
I just want us all to be happy, and be able to treat ourselves every once in a while, is it so much to ask that he gets another job before leaving this one? Sorry hour the spelling and stuff I log on through my phone
CommentAuthorWifey2be
awww hun!! i am sure your beautiful and rememeber he loves the way you look otherwise you wouldt be together!!!
and no your not being unreasonable with wanting him to get another job first!!
jobs are hard to come by at the moment, and with a child and you to help support he needs the job!!
chin up hun xxx
CommentAuthorMrsMcleish2B
Wifey2b is right hun!!! You will look beautiful no matter what!
Have you discussed with him transfering to a different job within the same company? You definetly need to get him to understand your concerns because it will put too much stress on you if he does just up and walk.
Hope you get it sorted hun xxxx
Wedding Day - 16th June 2012
CommentAuthorSsouter
Poor you hun! I agree with the ladies above, your man loves you for you and obviously finds you attractive.
The only way he is going to get some confidence in interviews is by going to them. Even if he just takes the first couple as practice and experience, he will get there in the end. No one likes an interview and everyone gets nervous. You need to help him find the confidence he needs to go to the first one. Once he gets used to what the interviewers are looking for, it will be a breeze!
Look online for hints and tips for writing CV's.
Hope he finds something he is happy with soon!
xx
CommentAuthorbecky -mrs firth
OI stop puttin ureself down! how old is ure h2b? i think he needs a strong talkin to u cant just quit a job wen u have a kid n a house to run!!
Engaged 27th November 2010
Hen Do Newcastle 2nd June 2012
Marrying the man of my dreams 11th August 2012!
Honeymoon To Jamaica 14th October 2012
He's 24, we've had a huge argument tonight whilst he's at work. I know he hates it there, but he wants to make money quick to make it he can leave, so every shift I get the 'think of stuff we can sell'
CommentAuthorMrsMcleish2B
Its a difficult situation, I hate my job and dread every morning BUT I have to! It's just not the right climate at the moment to be finding a new job for me. My H2B is a Royal Engineer in the Army and just returned from a tour of Afghan and to make 100% sure he doesn't go again in 2013 he needs to be handing his years notice next year so even more reason not to leave my job.
I total understand his situation but he needs to be realistic and make an effort to go to interviews and find a new job before leaving his current one. I'm sure he will realise that on a fresh day when he hasn't been to work. Have a chat and find out what he does want to do instead.
