IVE HAD IT WITH HIM LYING TO ME WHY IS HE DOING THIS 2 ME JUST LITTLE THINGS WHAT KEEP POPING UP AND HES TALKING 2 ME LIKE AM A PIECE OF SHI* LATELY AM NOT TAKING NO MORE FROM HIM I CUD CRY MY HEAD OFF AND LEAVE HIM 4 GOOD THATS HOW AM FEELING

Oh no sweetheart sending you big hugs and lots of happy vibes xx

awwww talk to him before u decide anything that is life changing you should have a very long chat with him xxxxxxxx hope u will sort things out hunni xxxxx

bless ya, what has happened hun x

oh no :0( whats happened? xx
(((hugs))))

OMG hun sounds awful but wait until you've had a chat... don't just take it at face value ok? Not saying he's totally innocent but he might not be as bad as all this... I hope! Massive hugs xxxx

Big hugs hun! Make sure you have a chat with him. You sure you can trust the person on fb? xx

Try to calm down and think clearly.

Is your information from a reliable source. Do you want to give him the opportunity to explain?

If its true its horrible but people do say strange things for all sorts of reasons so I wouldnt take it at face value.

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if he has been lying alot lately and talking to you like sh!t then that might be the reason OR the person on fb might have picked up on something and is sh!t staring, either way you deserve to know the truth. we're all here whatever the outcome xxx

hoooooooooj hugs! xxxxxxx

I just remembered about your other thread - did you do your test and if you did what was the result? :S

How does she know all this info? Its not something that people tend to take note of etc. Just tread carefully in case she is setting you up for a fall. Can you recall where you h2b was on these dates and times?

i want to say congrats but not sure if thats the right thing right now. i really hope you get to the bottom of this hun xxx

aww hun, sounds like you could do without all this stress! why not give this girl your number and ask her to call you if your h2b turns up at this girls. it will be hard to try and carry on as normal but as jo says atm you only have this girls word and it could all be innocent... xxx

so do i hun but he as a brother who looks like him and hes a tart iam gunna say am going outwith mum n mi sister r u coming he normally does we normally all o out 4 tea on a friday tea time n he normally comes were gunna take him 2 rebeccas house n see wat he does iam ready 4 action already will inform you all when i get back

Sorry to hear this hun, I hope it all works out for you. Nobody deserves to be made to feel the way you do

Follow your instinct, mind games/mental abuse can do more damage than physical abuse.

Good Luck Sweetie xxx

you have to think of yourself and try to stay calm hun, if i were you though id be going to whoevers house it is that he has supposed to have been seeing and call her bluff and tell her that you know everything and see what she has to say.
as for your h2b, give him the chance to explain whats been going on, and he owes you the truth.
be careful of chinese whispers as they can get very much out of hand , get all the facts together and then go and confront everyone involved. i really hope this all works out for you, i really do.
take care, and remember we're all here for you
xx

single parenting is rewarding isnt it sugardumpling? i loved being on my own more than with her dad my life moved on so much more without him! he didnt want me to have a job or nothing now he's on the dole! my mum always says you showed him babe ;-) haha xx

Congratulations on being pregnant! It's always the right thing to say a baby is a gift no matter what the circumstance :) Try to calm down a little (it'll be very hard I know) you've had an emotional week as it is so just be careful that this woman is reliable don't just take her word as gospel. Especially if she's made note of times and dates no one does that ever without wanting to use it for a purpose later! She may well be setting you up. She could be jealous and trying to split you up! Please be careful hun don't loose a good thing if you can help it xxxx

I deffo say talk to him first.. your angry now but calm down hun.
Keep us posted and good luck
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You have to keep as calm as you can hun, for the baby's sake. Just keep thinking that you still have something, even if he is a cheating, lying b@stard. The baby is all that matters atm. And stress isnt good for it :) Just take deep breaths and try and relax. Ohhh, have a nice hot bubble bath with looooooads of bubbles (I was going to say and a glass of wine, but best stay away from that atm, lol)
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aw hun... what an @rse!! I really hope you get things sorted out in a way that's best for you!..
& congratulations on your pregnancy. As Griff said, a baby is a real blessing, even if the circumstances aren't perfect!.. my thoughts are with you. x x x

she;s already gone to do it goff hun xx

Have to agree with Goff here babe. maybe it's just the wisdom of age speaking and we have to live those years to see things clearer? Good luck honey whatever you decide but take care of you and your baby first and foremost xxxx

Hi
I don't know you but wanted to share lots of sympathy and good will this situation is horrid and needs to be worked out so that the two of you can come to a decision and get on with your life together or separately Geoff good speech my friend sound advice from everyone. Trust is the key word for any relationship work out. why this person has told you this, what have they to gain or not, are they trustworthy? why have you chose to believe it ? were things going wrong? can you pinpoint when and where this could have taken place? why is he lying about little things? How would you feel about your relationship if it true or if it weren't........etc get you feelings into prospective first know how you feel before you tackle him so that it will be a calm conversation ask him to be totally honest with you so that you can understand and then decide what to do about it. Good luck maybe postpone the wedding until you are clear and can move on in which ever direction you need to go. I hope you find peace hun x