Soooooo......who is going to start trying for a baby after your wedding??? x

I wish I could but don't think we'd manage financially :(

We're gonna start trying soon after the wedding hopefully. Can't wait to become a mummy!

I'm coming off the pill on my wedding day and we're just going to see what nature offers us! :0)

Laura, know what you mean. Theres a girl at work in exactly the same position as you. Rubbish system!

couple of years yet for us, we are moving house in2 years and don't want them before

i would love to start trying after the wedding but i have pcos so gonna be hard to concieve. my H2B already has a 7 year old girl who means the world to me so if ends up cant having children i know i have her even if she aint mine xx

We're starting on the honeymoon x

oh ya definitely trying as i want the 1st baby b4 my 30th... so i got only 3month to try it oh well might be starting 3month before the wedding already no one needs to know :D

were going to have a year of 'being husband and wife...' before we try to be mummy and daddy... so we will start trying 8th june 2014 ha!! xx

Definitely not! Not sure if we are going to try at all!

I wish. I really want to but h2b doesnt want a baby while he is in the raf, and doesnt come out for another 3 years. Give it a year or so and a bit of pursuasion! lol. I wouldnt mind if he went away for short amounts of time whilst the baby was very small, it would just be when the baby is more responsive and knows whats going on that it would be awful for him to go away. I think we are going to try during his last year of service. They're my plans anyway! So desperate for children, its my life long dream :)

we are going to start trying on honeymoon too :)

Good shout mrsc - always good to have an expert about! God I remember taking the pregnancy multivitamin thing when I'd just found out - the big brand one with omega 3 included. Had terrible morning (all day) sickness and felt like I could taste fish! Now I know I couldnt actually taste it but it was something in it was making me worse... boak! x

We are going to have at least a year of being husband and wife.. I am not that keen on children at the moment but know H2B wants them so will give it a year and see what happens

When we get married we'll be 23 and 27. I think the likelihood is that we'll start trying after 2 years so I'll be 25 and well... at the moment if we had a child, he'd have to stay at home because I earn more and we'd like it to be so that I could stay at home.

thanks for the advise mrsC2b

Not me because

1, i have four already......26.23.17.14
2,i`m way too old
3, am now looking forward to when i an a nanny

We already have 4 so no more for us x

Not straight away - ideally 1-2 years after we get married, but who knows :-)

we are starting straight away, start my last pack of pills tomorrow, then finish the week before the wedding. So excited about it
xxx

I've a daughter, he's got a son and we've had a daughter and son together so no not a chance, getting too old for it anyway!

We will not be 'trying' persay but after the wedding we won't be using contraception, just going to let nature run it's course. We already have a beautiful daughter so we're in no hurry, but we would love for another one to come along :)

Well said Carrieanne - there's never a 'right time'. It took H2B and me a long time, heartache, and a very traumatic labour/delivery to get our little girl, and we are so skint it's daft, but we wouldn't have it any other way - she's our world! x

that was the plan but then h2b said he wanted to wait until jan next year. i have now come of the coil but we are waiting until next year.

but at the moment i want to live in a bigger place by the time we have kids xx

Laura i wasn't having a go at anyone, many people get caught on the pill and have no problems and vice versa. But sometimes it could cause problems so if people are "planning" babies i wanted to give the right advice out. Like i said i would have maybe got caught on the pill if my OH hadn't been in afghan for 8 months before so i had come off it months earlier and we definitly weren't trying. btw i didnt start taking folic acid until i found out either and my daughter is beautifully healthy etc so am really not getting at anyone i promise!
It's all about individual circumstances really but i believe if your gonna actually plan a baby then you might as well do it the reccomended way. if your gonna do something so important you wanna know you have done as best u could e.g. me starting taking folic acid when i knew i was pregnant...not as ideal as 3 months 3 concepually but the best that i could do as i wasnt trying and the pregnancy was a surprise!

and as for those asking about taking folic acid etc i would reccomend goin to see your GP because i wouldnt wanna comment on individual circumstances and although its more than safe to take for majority of women it's always a good idea to speak to GP as i wouldnt know your full medical history etc. it's reccomended starting to take folic acid and just been as healthy as possible cutting down on smoking etc 3 months before u start trying if thats an option. Not always an option but basically if you do have the option of making yourself as healthy as possible for 3 months before trying then why the hell wouldn't ya :-)

Also if your actually planning a baby then it might be worth getting a quick health check from the GP anyway...they can put you in touch with places and give you your multivitamins and folic acid if you have a nice GP lol!

Happy trying :-)