I'm sat watching a popular wedding programme and just wondered how many of you would let you H2B take full Forum Poll
A mans touch...
Would you let your man plan your big day?
Poll Results
Total Votes:
17
Yes
65%
No
35%
charge and plan your big day?
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CommentAuthorEmmaI93
Yeah I would because i know he would always ask me before he went through with everything even if he had control of everything x
CommentAuthorAshleigh:)
My h2b doesnt care and he would make some weird theme outta it, lets just say it'll probably be zombies! He wouldnt remember to get my shoes or hair and makeup, and wouldnt even invite half my family. No way would i let him full charge, Id like him to make some effort towards it, but all im getting atm is its up to you or whatever you want, oh thats nice (when hes not even looking!) Lmaoo Rant over :P
CommentAuthorHannah
Ha ha ha!! I'm with you Ashleigh, I would also walk into some crazy mad themed venue hoping it was a joke. he already keeps trying to add little silly things in. X
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CommentAuthorAshleigh:)
Lmao, are / were you watching dont tell the bride? :P
Yes I would, we've worked well together on our wedding so I'd have full confidence in him doing it alone.
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CommentAuthorHannah
Yes I was! Haha! Some of them are crazy! But I have to admit some of the brides are way too snobby and ungreatful. X
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CommentAuthorAshleigh:)
Yeah! I dont understand though, some of them have been engaged for a long time, and the men kno nothing that they want! I dont like the women on it, that say Im not gonna marry him if he messes it up, cos obviously if you love him you wouldnt care, obviously might be a bit peed off but other then that no lol :D
CommentAuthorHannah
Ha ha yeah totally! There total bridezillas! Haha x
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CommentAuthorsarahh
I applied for the show and also think that T would make a great TV show - him and his best man are like a double act!
I don't think he would get everything how I have imagined in my head, but at the end of the day it is his day too. He would try his best to think 'What would Sarah want' and I know that he would pick everything for a reason, and I would be so proud if he had organised it all.
Does anyone watch Hollyoaks? Darren suprised Nancy with a wedding - I would have LOVED this! Have enjoyed the planning, but I think this romantic gesture is amazing!
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CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
I googled wedding dresses and gave the ipad to my h2b after watching a DTtB marathon, he showed my mum the ones he liked and chose 4 of the ones I'd pointed out to her before, so yeah, I think I'd trust him to do it :-) I wouldn't actually let him though as I'm a complete control freak lol.. It's hard enough that he's chosing the cake and I have absolutely no part or say in it haha xxx
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4th July 2015
CommentAuthorAshleigh:)
Lmao! Nooo the cake, have to keep making subtle hints of what you would like to see aha!
CommentAuthorHannah
Haha! You going to have some laughs at your wedding then Sarah : ) and yeah I watch Hollyoaks, that was a good episode, it was very romantic!
Georgi that is so sweet! My OH would have a clue I'm not even sure if he would look properly. he is also though picking the cake which I don't mind as he loves cake and I know he would want it to be nice (but I have made a list of cake do's and dont's) hahaha!! And I don't blame you for being a control freak, it's your big day! X
If there ever comes a day when we can't be together,
Keep me in your heart,
And I'll stay there forever
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
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I'm not even allowed to mention the word cake !! Haha.. The only thing I've asked of the cake is that he remembers to caters for everyone and not just his sickly sweet tooth that he has.. He could eat 10 quadruple chocolate cakes covered in cream one after the other ! He's terrible lol..
I love the episodes where the guys have chosen a size dress loads bigger than she is lol.. One I watched, he chose a size 14 and she was only a size 8 !!! She was gutted lol, but she loved the dress luckily and they could take it in for her ! So he was off the hook haha ! Another one I watched, she went to try on dresses with her mum and they were absolutely horrible, didn't suit her at all and made her look so fat, even though she wasn't at all ! Her H2B however chose an absolutely gorgeous dress that suited her so much and made her look slim and beautiful and she hated it !!!! xxx
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4th July 2015
CommentAuthorHannah
I want to see his choice of cake!
Ha ha yeah I've seen that episode, I would have been heart broken if he got me a dress 3 sizes to big.
Oslo complete cow I haven't seen that one, she must of wanted her OH to look like he had better dress sense! X
If there ever comes a day when we can't be together,
Keep me in your heart,
And I'll stay there forever
CommentAuthorValentinaK
Deffo, he knows what I want as I dropped enough hints before he even proposed about how I'd have things plus we wathc so many dont tell the bride episodes he knows what are no nos and what arent!
And we lived happily ever after!
CommentAuthorHannah
ValentinaK good on you for getting him too watch!! My OH can always find something that needs to be done when it on! Haha. X
If there ever comes a day when we can't be together,
Keep me in your heart,
And I'll stay there forever
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
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I'm not going to see it until our wedding day ! Lol.. Wonder if he'll at least let me go to the tasting :-) Yum !
Haha ! Maybe ! I can't remember what the rest he did was :-/ Just remember her terrible taste in dresses and even more terrible reaction to his ! My H2B watches it with me but is getting fed up of it now haha.. xxx
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4th July 2015
CommentAuthor*KelBel*
No way! I enjoy planning together but enjoy having some things to plan myself like the dress etc.... And if it's don't tell the bride ur on about, I think that example is way extreme,they put lots of dramas in to make the entertainment! Like spending all that money on the stag do and leaving none in the kitty for the hen do is completely out of order ...lol x
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CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
Oh, ok.. Apparently, doing cake tastings is peeing about and he wont be doing it.. He's choosing one and that'll be it :-/ xxx
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4th July 2015
CommentAuthorHannah
Lmao! Men are so funny! Georgi he sounds like a right character!
KelBel yeah I know what you mean....like leaving the hens just to have a game of bingo haha. X
If there ever comes a day when we can't be together,
Keep me in your heart,
And I'll stay there forever
CommentAuthorMrsH-2B
He can be Hannah !! Tut.. I'm going to have to bug him to hell next year to actually do it !! Think he thought 1-2months before the wedding would've been fine !! Just can't wait til he's chosen and paid for one and then at least the worry of not having one sorted is off my shoulders ! Lol..
One of the ones I saw, he just sent a bunch of alcohol to her house !! They'd all dressed up to go out in town with the sashes etc ! She was furious ! They all put in together and went out instead.. Think his stag cost £500 ish aswel !! xxx
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4th July 2015
CommentAuthorFinally Susan B
Yes, I'd let him choose everything. I think we know each other well enough to know what they other would/wouldn't like. My only worry would be him actually having the get up and go to do it. Could imagine us all ending up in macD's with a Mr K!plin bakewell tart, in our jeans and T shirts
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
I wont let H2B plan my wedding alone he not interested in Wedding Planning at all I can imagine a Arsenal Wedding and him forgetting lots of things hair n make up everything be arsenal or somehow he will add in Xbox games somehow Zombiies Fifa I would kill him but he said he Wouldn't do that to me If he was to plan our wedding he would stick to the theme That I'm doing now and he would ask me things every step of the way I do not believe him I imagine he will leave everything to the last minute
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CommentAuthorclive
I'm already planning ours. I even had to sort out W2B's wedding dress fittings. Oh, and I've just been to the florist as well - Felt like Walter, Prince Of the Softies out of the Dennis tThe Menace cartoons! :o))
CommentAuthorsarah
No, he's so opinionated he needs some to balance him out!
