I have the most awkward family so me and my partner decided to mix our families together for the meal. i did a table plan and sent a pic to my mum and sis as i didnt think you could read the names (just wanted to show off my sticky note design) and my mum has started questioning why shes sat with my gran (her mum) and making a drama. my sister said ive done very politically well to seat all my family and it all looks great. my mum said she's rather sit with my dad and his wife.....a definate no no

i am actually laughing at how ridiculous my mum is sounding but worried i dont want hassle and problems. i technically cant seat my mum n her husband anywhere else, and if i did it would be a back table so she would complain she was at the back!!

Yeah can you get your sister to help you out? Tell her there's nowhere else she could sit unless she wants to sit at the back (I'm sure she won't). if its one of those situations where shell continue to make a fuss, can you just tell her you'll look into it and move her (youve got plenty of time) but then just have her sit in the same place on the day?

yeah she started giving me suggestions and said she would sit at the back next to my brother but in actual fact if i moved her to the back id move my brother to her place lol...... i just told her ill re look at it nearer the time and think ill just leave her there. so glad im laughing about it if it was nearer the time think id be crying.

id just tell her you'll have another look at it, then never mention it again lol