So my surprise hen weekend starts on friday (traveling down on thursday night to london for the weekend) those who read my other post will know why im a bit nervous, but im hoping things go really well and theres no awkwardness between anyone!
Ill let you know how it goes. Really excited still though as im sure itll be really good :) H2b is going to dublin for his, he can't wait!!
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CommentAuthorTiffany
Hope you have an amazing time MrsC. Keeping everything crossed for you that it will go smoothly and wont be awkward.
CommentAuthorStaceyH989
Keeping my fingers crossed for you :) hope you have an amazing time Mrs C xx
CommentAuthorNicoleW665
Have a great time! Hope it goes well x
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CommentAuthorClaire1978
Have a smashing time! Do you at least know where you are going? How exciting :-D xx
Have a great time, looking forward to hearing all about it next week :) x
CommentAuthorFutureMrsW
Can't wait to hear all about it, have an amazing time x
CommentAuthorEmily17
Have a brilliant time!!
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CommentAuthorMichelleC961
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Really hope the girls have done you proud and you have a fab weekend xx
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Hope you're having a great weekend x
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CommentAuthorMrsC2Be
hi!!
Aww thankyou all for your kinda messages thats really sweet!!
So ive back (and still recovering!) from my hen do, it was mostly family and 1 of my bridesmaids, and my other friends and bridesmaids turned up later on the saturday. Had a really nice time, MOH didn't make much effort i dont think but cant dwell on it, it was still a great time :D
Did have one bit of drama that means im dropping a day guest... Went to a pub and club on the saturday night which some of my friends came along too, one of them decided she would get on all the drugs in the world and act like a complete cow to all of us. She then had to stay at our apartment as i didn't want her going home alone in that state (MIL + SIL were there sleeping) and she came in shouting and screaming the place down, we couldn't get her to go sleep or get a cab home. It was awful as all of my friends were so angry and none of us got any sleep. She eventually had some random guy come and pick her up at 5 in the morning. She was so rude and nasty to us all, which i know was probably mostly the drink and drugs but still bang out of order.
Ive told her that she cant come to the wedding. Shes a complete liability and that behaviour would totally ruin our day, do you think thats mean? xx
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CommentAuthorNicoleW665
i would uninvite her myself to be honest, if she feels the need to take drugs and act out to have a good time then i would bet she may think it's ok to do the same at the wedding which is definitely not acceptable!
glad you have a great time otherwise though x
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CommentAuthorMichelleC961
Firstly glad you had a good time- shame this 'friend' ruined it- off the list for sure- drugs are a no no- girl has serious issues- do you hunk she is the sort of person to turn up anyway? Perhaps if you hunk she will turn up set the bestman or 2 people to be on the look out and get rid of her!
Xx
CommentAuthorTiffany
Glad you had a good time, bar that one 'friend'. I don't blame you for uninviting her at all. Who in there right mind thinks it's acceptable to behave in that manner. I agree with Michelle I would speak to the bestman and others to keep an eye out and throw her out if she does dare turn up.
CommentAuthorStaceyH989
Glad to hear you enjoyed yourself despite the actions of one person.
I would definitely uninvite her and I agree with Michelle and Tiffany ask a few people to keep their eye out just in case its a weight off your mind then.
CommentAuthorMrsC2Be
glad you all feel the same!! i'm glad in a way that that happened on the hen do so i can avoid a situation like that at the wedding, it would be mortifying. Shame she cant come but its not worth the risk!
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Engaged In Rome February 2016
Getting Married In Scotland May 2017
CommentAuthorAmyD532
Glad you had a nice hen do despite your rather "interesting' ending. Is this person usually one who would dabble in a little illegal substances to have a good time? If it's common behaviour you can't have her at your wedding, if she can act out like that on your hen night it's highly likely that a wedding wont put her off if she felt the need to 'make a point'.
CommentAuthorEmily17
So glad you had a nice time after all the stress beforehand!
Shame about her, at least you can now make sure to avoid it at the wedding. I would get an uncle / best man etc t keep an eye out for her. Unfortunately there is no legal reason why she cannot attend a church ceremony but you can tell her to do one after as not invited!
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CommentAuthorMrsC2Be
luckily she is in london and we are marrying in scotland, so hopefully she wont bother turning up as she'll need to fly up, find somewhere to stay and try and find the venue herself! fingers crossed itll be too much of an effort for her to sabotage it!
Ill definitely make sure the people that know her know to have her removed if she turns up! xx
Met In Lanzarote April 2013
Engaged In Rome February 2016
Getting Married In Scotland May 2017