Hi everyone I'm really peeved h2b and I went to the students union at our university to get advice on how to change names, funding passports and proof excetera. Everything we talked about she was so negative about! When we said about changing the name on my university records she said "I just wouldn't bother it's such a nuisance. Too much effort for something so trivial. Don't change your name until you have finished the time as a student" I was really peeved I had allready made my decision about changing my name I just wanted to know how.
Everytime we said the word wedding she wrinkled her nose like it was a distasteful word. I wouldn't mind so much if she'd actually given us some advice but we allready knew the things she said we just wanted to get some more information. I really wanted to ask her what her issue was. Her receptionist was lovely and really got excited and the old bat told her to get on with some filing so she couldn't talk to us!!
She made me so mad I really wanted to give her a good old right hook >:( Grrrrrrrr! What is it with this stuff? Aren't students allowed to get married?!?! Sorry Big Rant....
Anyone else had something like this happen? xx
CommentAuthornickers
sorry i havent hun but there is no need for her to go on like that with you should of said somrething to her i would have lol xx
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CommentAuthorKerrylou
Can't say I've had anything like this happen. Does she have a superior you can talk to about this? Her attitude is well out of order and she shouldn't have treated this as some sort of inconvenience!!
Go right hook the miserable old hagbag :D xxx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
CommentAuthorGriff
Thanks guys I'm just so p*ssed off! I've finally booked and sorted pretty much everything all I have to sort is my wedding outfit and my bridesmaids and it's done then when I'm super excited she goes and pops me like a balloon with her cr*ppy attitude :(
CommentAuthorKerrylou
Don't let her burst your bubble. Sad, miserable, hideous, nasty, jealous, spiteful old witchybitchy. Now cheer up and don't let her get to you!! xxx
It's right what they say
"The course of true love never runs smoothly"
But if it had been easy then we wouldn't love each other as
much as we do right now - 1 week to go :D
Yeah, it's such a nuisance that you ask for your name to be changed after you get married... HOW DARE YOU want to take your h2b's name and ask that the university take their precious time (which btw they could be using to sit around and do nothing) to perform a tiny administration task...what were you thinking?! Seriously though, what a cowbag! Universities get more and more evil by the year I'm sure... I've not done this yet but if they get funny with me, I'll get funny back! I'd go straight to your course administrator or secretary, they are usually the people at the end of the chain who handle your student records so may as well cut out all the middle men (especially if they want to be like that!). Your course/faculty secretary should be able to tell you the process for it and if you do need proof he/she will tell you what you need and when you need it. :)
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CommentAuthorLindsey Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ
I didnt have a problem with mine.....just had to take the certificate in. I can totall understand the frustration though cos im glad to be graduating an Evans. I would have kicked up a right stink lol. Some people are jut so rude!!!
CommentAuthorCroc
thats really bad what a cow bag ...obviously going through a bitter divorce or something! i cant see it being that much hassle , maybe if it was just before exams then fair enough as i guess that would be difficult if already printed etc. but to just go and ask her for information and to be like that is unfair, id make a complaint or failing that smack her one!!!
my h2b is changing his name as we are double barrelling due to the fact i dont want my name different to my sons and he said he would change his surname to me but he has built his reputation in his job on his surname and reputation means alot in his line of work so he cant really hence why we are double barrelling so that in work he doesnt have to change his name. stupid i know but still annoying!! xx
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CommentAuthorAldridge2B
not with regards to name change but one of the girls in college was going on today about its such a waste of time money and effort getting married you only end up getting devoriced. well i was not happy felt like slapping her and saying just because your miserable and lonley with two failed marrages does not mean i will be to *and brethe* x x
CommentAuthorTattieSoup
Crocadillo: Can your husband not change his name, but carry on using his "maiden" name at work? Lots of women do this and it is no problem! Although on your deed poll you agree to use the name you are changing to for all purposes, using a different name professionally doesn't count - it is allowed as legally you are always acting on behalf of your employer and not as yourself. If you are self employed then technically you are <new name> trading as <old name>.
If you do decide to go double-barrelled make sure he does his before you get married, then you can change yours to his new name for free when you get married, and you only have to pay for one deed poll!
CommentAuthorNetta
Eeeeee gads! What a hag and a half. I have all this to find and figure out, and am now a tad worried that it is gonna be a pain in the proverbial lol.
As for the double-barrelling this is something we have been discussing as the children have my surname and it would be nice to keep it going (am the last of 4 girls), so am looking into having theirs amended to both of ours. However, my first name is already hyphenated and think it might be a tad much for the old signature lol.
Aldridge - have a similar one on my class who drives me and one of the other women nuts with constantly telling us her views and opinions on marriage (and she hasn't even been wed), just want to wallop her by the end of each week.
