Have you tried getting one of them fertility monitors? You wee on them and they tell you when your most fertile days are. They are meant to be 95% effective.

honey my sister had four miscarriages, each time they didnt know why it was happening they went for tests and things where ok but then they found out her blood was too thick/thin not sure which sorry, she was devestated each time and i think tbh had given up on the hope of havin a baby, but guess.... what she is now pregnant with a baby girl, she has to keep havin something to keep her blood regulated again im sorry not sure what its called ill find out for you. please dont give up hope but also dont put everything you have into trying and hoping just try relax and take each month as it comes. for some reason ppl sometimes struggle to concieve then out of the blue they do.even now she is pregnant and even knows the sex of the baby she is not fully settled and i dont think she will be till she arrives safely, she has a monitor where she can listen to her heart beat every night she does this everynight without fail it puts her mind at ease, she did have a bleed scare and didnt tell any one she was pregnant this time untill last week.

sorry to blaffel on for so long just wanted u to realise there is hope out there hunny xxx
keep you chin up and good luck i hope it works for you soon xx

babe i have had two single miscarriages and two misscariages in the same pregnancy! my eldest was meant to be triplets! i have also had another between xander and dante and one since dantes, fortunetly with mine i wasnt far enough along to have heard heartbeats or seen scans. i guess im just too used to it now i dont even bother to tell doc. i know a miscarriage when i have one. i suggest taking it easy for a while. forget wedding plans take a break from work and put your fee up, less risk of losing again trust me!

please ladies i know how lovely you are caring and all but please dont tell me your sorry to hear what i have said as it might make me break down about it. thankyou love to all

aw hun i sympathise to my swister has had 6 miscarriages once she gets to 7 weeks she looses them devastating each time i hop eyou get to thye bottom of what it is they cant find anything wrong with my sister xx

i know how u feel huni,i had a miss misscarriage 3 weeks ago[my babys heart stopped beating but the baby stayed in my womb so had to be medically removed] and iv had 3 misscarriages.theres nothing anyone can say to take away the pain u feel.i felt such a failure everytime,the thing ur bodys naturally ment to do my body wasnt and i felt i was letting my partner down.it can be a dark place to be and hard for some people to understand,u prob at times feel like giving up,the pain of losing a baby is something u dont want to have to go thru again.i recently found out the reason for my misscarriages is a condition called lupus anticoagulant,it means my blood clots too much putting me at greater risk of misscarriage or still birth,but to give u some hope hun i have 2 lovely children,i had a child before all this started,but after my 3rd misscarriage i got pregnant and with extra monitoring i carried to full term.dont give up,holding that baby in ur arms is worth all the pain n loss u are going thru,ull never forget the children u lost and i really feel for u and hope u get ur baby soon.big hugs huni.xxx

I hope it all works out for you in the end, dont give up xx

Thanks for all ur comments and suggestions guys im gonna book an appointment i think and see what they got to say xxx

Will keep my fingers crossed it happens soon for u hun x

Thanks guys gp sending me for more tests lol no matter how many times it happens never gets any easier
especially when ppl around u are goin on about how easy it is for them

mum miscarried after each child before having the next one. Turned out she just couldnt carry boys. Im sure its not a prob. Keep trying. It doesnt happen quickly for some ppl unfort.

just ignore other people. nobody understands unless they have been through it. as your appointment isnt for a while why dont you write down all your questions for the doc and then you have them all ready as otherwise you may come away with questions unanswered xx

You never get over something like that honey you just learn to live with it. It's awful and I honestly hope you get the right help and support that you need xxxx

weather she understands or not she s ment to be your friend and should be more supportive,i know exactly how you feel and its the most awfull lonely feeling,but your not alone.my best friend is pregnant and while i was in hospital losing the baby she was messaging me going on and on about her pregnancy and dint even ask how i was,i had tto tell her tho i was happy for her i was aving an hard time and couldnt deal with it right now,a few so called friends said i was out of order but its them that need to grow up.they are the pathetic ones we av lost a baby and it is natural to feel hurt and grieve.how ur feeling is how u should be feeling,i hope ur doctor gives u the help u need and ur friend learns to be a bit more supportive.xx

glad the docs are doing something now. if you are 4 days late then i would say do a test! you never know! xx

4 days is quite a lot to be late when you are normally on time/early! maybe wait another day or 2 to see if you do come on and then i think you def should do a test. it is better than worrying about whether you should or not

maybe ring your gp,they might be able to check ur hcg levels from ur blood test,fingers crossed for u.xx

good luck.xx

Hey guys got some great news did a test this morning as was feeling like crap last few days and had the vile taste i my mouth and

I'M PREGNANT :) :) :) :) :) :)


So going to ring the doctors in a bit and get things going. Just hoping and praying that this time i make it full term xx

wow thats gr8 news xxx

Great news wish you a happy and healthy pregnancy. x

congrats,really hope all goes well for u.xxxx

glad you are taking folic acid already! let your h2b run around after you so you can sit back and relax! xx

aww brilliant it could have been that you cant carry certain sex babies my friend miscarried 4 boys but fine with girls??? strange xx

Hey honey,

Ive been through same as you with trying for over 3 years and kept catching bt kept miscarring. We are still try for our first child and I am undergoing loads of blood tests etc.
Its great to hear your great news and I hope you go on to have a healthy and happy pregnancy and look forward to seeing pics when it born :)

Keep your chin up

williams2B

Thanks guys will keep u posted on any news, got midwife on Thursday so will hopefully now a bit more by then xx