first let me make it clear the only thing i want is to marry the love of my life!
I have had a huge falling out with my MOH so much so she isnt talking to me and has removed herself from my facebook wedding group for my bridesamaids and my mum lives 200 miles away. i feel so lonely and it feels like all the excitement has been drained out of it by my MOH being a cow and that i cant just pop round my mums for a cup of tea and a wedding chat! i mean shes excited for me and we do talk about it but regular but no one else seems bothered about it. i dont really have many friends since having my lil girl cos the have all just abandoned me and the one i did have thinks im selfish and self absorbed! im literally not talking about or enjoying planning what should be the best day of our lives (h2b just says yes dear to everything now)
no need to rely i just needed to say it :) kelly xx
Tradition is not for us ;)
Future Mrs M
CommentAuthorMrsC.Wade2B
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First of all *Hugs* second I know it might seem hard but if you cant fix things with your MOH then perhaps its for the best but if its fixable then just give it time, I don't know how it feels not to have your mum around but I know its hard not having many friends as I don't have any since I chose to settle down and had my daughter, it can get tough and feel lonely but then strength of your love with your H2b and your family and girl that's the most important thing, I have lost my wedding mojo too but I am sure it will come back given time just maybe take a break from wedding planning and spend time with your family and it'll come back to you soon I know for sure, I've been planning my wedding for 2 and half years lol so know it comes back with some time away
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CommentAuthorMrsX2b
Hi mundith, Sorry to hear all that. You should start one of those wedding dairy threads on here, Im sure everyone on here would love to keep up with your planning/ideas, A few ladys on here have them. Think i might start one to, plus as the time comes closer it will be good to look back on whats done and still needs doing xx
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
So sorry to read this I'm sorry you cant talk to your maid of honor any more I hope you two will patch things up in the mean time talk to us about anything weddingy that what we are here for Bear Hugs That's all I get from my H2B Yes That Yes Whatever you said Like he's not interested We are here for you for Non Stop Wedding Chat =D <3 X
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Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together
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CommentAuthorNataleeM
Hugs hunny! Do not forget there is thousands of ladies on here to talk non stop wedding chat, feel free to add me :D I know how you feel really, I do not really have many friends due to have my boys as we moved away but we have lots of friends on here, Im not sure on the reason why you have fallen out with your MOH but if she has done that and no tried to resolved the problem then she obviously is not worthy to be in your bridal party xxxxxxx
aww atleast you can already see you are not as alone as you think xxx im kind of the same nobody is particularly bothered with the run up or planning of the weding i have literally done/made am doing everything. my mum is nearby but just simply isnt all that bothered she has her own life my moh is my sister who again is too busy to pin down unless of course im paying for make -up trial or buying dresses. but this site has been great i moan i plead and i ask opinions and someone is always lovely enough to answer. i know on the day everyone ill raleigh round and it will be great they just arent as interested in the hard bits!! i have just ommersed myself in planning other half wwas interested in his stag but not much else and atleast i know on the day it will be my effort and my work and believe me that day i will be partying and enjoying it with everyone else.
One BIG day will lead to lots of little happy days !!
CommentAuthorMundith
Thank you ladies, nice to know i have you girls to talk too about it! i struggle even more cos our wedding is going to be 'different' nio white wedding etc so people just raise their eyebrows at me and ask 'really?' erm yes yes i am having a black dress, ive already picked it and im halfway paid for it! grrrr lol
I think i will start a thread for my day too i enjoy following the ones already on :) you ladies are lovely thank you xxxx
Tradition is not for us ;)
Future Mrs M
CommentAuthorMrsLJDeaton
Of course we are here for you And Mundith I'm walking down the aisle in a Emerald Green Dress who and where are you getting your dress made please leave me a message on my page or in the chat As I said and will say again We are here for non stop Wedding talk =D <3 X
Started going out 23.10.2010 met at Barnet college
Engaged 23.08.2012 In Turkey Our 1st Holiday Together
To be Mrs Lana Jocelyn Deaton on 23.10.2015 5 years the day
Jamiroquai Arthur Gordon Deaton Born 29/05/2015 My Son Jammy
CommentAuthorNicolaG1
Hi Mundith, so sorry to hear your MOH has fallen out with you. Tbh with you not many of my bridesmaids are that bothered abou talking wedding with me thats why I come on here!!! People seem to get sick of it pretty quick. We are all here to hear about your plans and have a good old chat, so dont try to feel too down. Looking forward to reading your planning diary xxx
CommentAuthorInDreamland
Oh dear hun, hugs!
Maybe nearer the time everyone around you will get more excited, it is 16 months still to your big day and for many that is a long time and everyone has their own things going on in their own lives which are more pressing at the moment. I'm sure give it 6 months and they'll all perk up over the wedding again. Unfortunately many, not all, h2b's are not massively enthusiastic about their weddings until the last few months before or they'll only be interested in things like the car, what they will wear when the time comes to order it, the food and drink when that's being chosen and in my hubby's case the cake. Many guys just aren't interested in colour schemes, deco or small details and are just happy for their bride to choose what they want.
All this is why I came on this site, I could talk to people who were interested and enthusiastic about all things wedding so all of us on here will love to hear about everything from you.
Hope you can sort things out with your MOH. Does she have much going on in her life at the moment? Maybe you could take a month or two off wedding planning and just enjoy everyday life and being engaged, spend some quality time with the friends you have, if you don't raise the topic of the wedding you'll find that they soon will.
I have heard that a lot of ladies lose friends after having kids if they are childless because they don't understand how much time and effort children take from their parents and those without kids just don't have the experience to get it. Try not to be too sad about that, unfortunately life is like that, you have different types of friends for different stages in your life xxx
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