Ok im marrying in cyprus have 2 bridesmaids ( my cousins) But they Live in belfast ive moved to hertfordshire i want to have a hen night in the uk for my friends..and one in cyprus as will b my bridesmaids etc etc!!

But can i plan a hen night myself? i really wanted the idea of no knowing what i was doing haha :-(

Obvs i dont want anyone 2 spend STUPID ammounts of money Just be happy with a meal etc but how did you all plan ur hen night if you was marrying abroad?

I planned my own as I'm a control freak! lol We went for a meal in a nice indian restaurant and then off out for some drinks afterwards :)

I'm kind of planning my own in as much I've suggested when we get together and given ideas of where to go. When a few have replied I've asked if I can leave further arranging to them as I've got a lot on. They've been very happy to do this so now I've ended up with a casino night from my work girls (although they wont tell me what else is happening that night), the school mums are taking me for a meal and drinks somewhere. I've arranged a spa thing and my mum is arranging an afternoon tea thing so it's lots of little get togethers. I can't wait x

I'd just assumed I was gunna plan my own, though I was informed otherwise by my best mate. I can't see a problem with orgainising it yourself, unless there is someone you can delegate too without it making you feel uncomfortable!