So following my previous discussions about my nightmare mother in law to be and sister in law, and lots of arguing between my fiancé and he. He called his dad last night, and his dad was unaware of everything his daughter has been doing and behaving like, and apologised to me on her behalf, even though he shouldn't have to. My fiancé said obviously his da will stick up for his daughter in a way as it is his daughter,but he understands all the stress she has been causing.

Is got to the point where my fiancé, myself, and other people agree she shouldn't be my bridesmaid, and I am most probably going to askme good friend to replace her instead, which I wanted to do originally but felt like I should ask his sis, and I could only afford to have 3. But yet again as usual ileitis save arguments and please other people so I asked her over my friend. Which I've regretted for months.

She's been very ungrateful, never texts to see how I am what I'm doing etc,trouble makes problems with her mum and is totally rude to her either my fiancé and her stepmum.

Currently my fiancé is over his dads to tell her, my stomach is in knots. I obviously don't want to fall out with her etc,but she has been awful. His dad said it isn't ideal but can understand.

I'm scared what his family will think of me, but his dads sisters in Scotland think the sun shines out of Jemma's you know what, they don't know how rude she is to anyone. S I. Expect they are going to hate me now, I'm dreading phone calls tonight cos I bet my moon in law to be will be getting drunk when she finds out and having a go at us.

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