hi ladies can i ask a bit of advice please my h2b is 58 im only 32 h2b daughter is 35 andd she has invited me to hen weekend next year in lanzaroti but not sure wheter to go or not because by then she will be my step daughter i want to go but am a bit nervous also my 3 step kids to be andirea steve and dave are all chipping in for our honeymoon for our wedding present
CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
if it was me id go. my mother in law came to mine and had a great time x
CommentAuthorUnknown
i would go if i were you. i dont see why it would be a problem with them paying towards your honeymoon?
she obviously wants you there or wouldnt have invited you xx
CommentAuthordodge
true but his ex wife going to evn though get on well with her im a bit nervous
i still dont understand why that affects her hen? as long as you all get on i am sure you wil have a great time
CommentAuthordodge
step mother and proper mother not sure
CommentAuthorPaula
I would go as long as you get on with them there shouldnt be a problem x
CommentAuthorKinkyemo
You obviously mean a lot to her!
Dont let the fact your going to be step mum stop you! It might be hard with ex wife there but do you get on? not all ex's are hostile towards new partners Maybe you will get on great!
CommentAuthorTotallyLovedUp
i would go huni, she really wants you there or she wouldnt have asked. as for her mother, i am sure she would have spoken to her before hand and besides, i am sure there will be plenty enough people there if it gets a bit awkward, but if you get along with her i dont see that there would be a problem anyway especially if you both make an effort to get along for your stepdaughters sake! xx
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
i would go maybe take a friend with you? xx
soon to be Mrs Berry 26.11.2011
CommentAuthorkrisw86
i woudl definately go hun. she clearly likes u and wants u there with her when she has her hen weekend otherwise she wouldnt have invited u xx
CommentAuthorsbride
You should go hun, sounds like it would be a blast and she obviously thinks alot of u to invite u x
I am now Mrs Stacey Stiles and loving it!
CommentAuthorlil miss sunshine
think you should go you'll have a blast
and now the next chapter
CommentAuthorpurpleme
think u should go. she sounds like she wants u there otherwise she wouldnt of asked u. and think u said earlier u get on with her mum so why not go and enjoy it??
Cannt wait to be a Savage :-)
CommentAuthorStave
You should go but defo take a friend!
CommentAuthorTotallyLovedUp
the friend idea is a good one, but make sure to check with her 1st.... you don't want to upset her by inviting someone she doesnt know on her hen weekend lol but by the sounds of it she is lovley and would completely understand why! have a good chat with her and tell her whats worrying u hun x
CommentAuthordodge
i am goin and goin alone i no all people that are goin and i do get on with he mam