H2b were talking lat night about out hen and stag do's. Neither of us drink, we have both een somewhat dreading the idea of our friends dragging us out for mad night boozing as we both suffer badly, and h2b never drinks! There seems to be this general thoery that alcohol and drunkeness must be included but niether of us are that bothered. On top of that, we have been in the same circle of friends and known each other for over 11 years, so the idea of going out celebrating anything without each other is pretty wierd to us, and our freinds would effectively have to choose between coming out with me or h2b....

So for many reasons, we are now thinking along the lines of something for both of us, we are thinking bride vs groom paintball then a meal and ending up in our freinds pub where we can have a couple of drinks, giggles etc and people can choose to come or go as they wish.

Then leave it a couple of days before the wedding, h2b the dads, the brothers and the best man go go karting and let their hair down, while me and h2bs mum head to a spa for massage etc......

I really like the idea of the paintball. I really think you will have a really good time. GO LADIES lol.......I know mu H2B loved painballing he has been twice. He went to one near the airport.

I like the idea of a spa too. I was thinking the same....

dont go paint ballin to close to the wedding date u dont want unslighty bruises or accidents lol but sounds like a fab idea and the spa treat sounds great nice calm soothing relaxin treat before ya big day enjoy xx