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Help: Sorry my day just got a whole lot worse!!!!!!!!

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- CommentAuthorb2bnicola
I was having such a good day until..........

(basically background story of this is that my h2b had a job and at this job was Girl A and she caused MAJOR problems between us, spread rumours he was with her, told my mates that he'd told her he was going to leave me... the list goes on)

It was a very hard couple of months with this situation but my best friends (bms) got me through it....

Today im on the book of face and 1 of my bms has wrote Girl A a message on her wall saying "good luck for today, let me know how it goes later!"

Now from what my bridesmaid told me is that shes hates Girl A and was totally on my side thru this whole thing as Girl A did the same thing to her and her boyf a couple of years back....

For her to write that on her wall and ask her to contact her later suggests to me that they are in touch with each other!!!!!!!

WHY WHY WHY

im so annoyed and BM has conveniently stopped txting me back this morning.........

xx

Happily Married! :) xxx
- CommentAuthorcasbride87
sounds like your bm is a back stabber - why dont you confront her i would??? Hope you are ok hunny x
- CommentAuthorRoxii
She could have been saying that she doesn't like her to make you feel better, I don't think you should feel too betrayed other than the fact you've been lied to. As you can't be mad at her for liking someone that you dont. x
- CommentAuthorIschnura
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- CommentAuthorb2bnicola
apparently GIRL A has an interview today and shes been talkin to her givin her advice......

im not happy at all with her.... this girl caused so much bother my h2b had to leave his job and we nearly lost our house! friendship trumps giving out advice for interviews.

im sorry but im so annoyed

Happily Married! :) xxx

- CommentAuthorcasbride87
how long have you been friends with ur bm?
- CommentAuthorb2bnicola
since primary school so say 20 years lol
she sed that GIRL A msged her a couple weeks ago asking advice for an interview and theyve been talkin ever since.....

so why not tell me about it? id be far less annoyed at her talking to her if id of known kinda thing

x

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- CommentAuthorEmsy5000
you should ask you bm whats going on its probably inersent

Dyslexic
its spelt wrong
I No! I Now! I Know!!!!!
I am NOW MRS LONSDALE!!
- CommentAuthorIschnura
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- CommentAuthorb2bnicola
She sed its cos shes friends with her brother.... which i had no idea about either!

ARGH

U know wen uv kinda forgotten about a situation finally and then it just all comes rushing back to u?

xx

Happily Married! :) xxx
- CommentAuthorRoxii
Mabye she's just choosing to forgive and forget. Like I said before, there's not really a good reason to be mad just because she's spoken to her. And the only reason there is to be mad at her is that she lied to you!
- CommentAuthorb2bnicola
ive found my sense of reasoning lol
told her she cud of just told me in the 1st place
shes sed sorry she didnt realise it wud bother me as much as it has

im going to get a greggs pastie at dinner lol x

Happily Married! :) xxx
- CommentAuthorJoolsy
I would have been angry as well Nicola; it's like she is sneaking about behind your back if she had just told you in the first place she was in contact with this girl then it wouldn't have seemed like she was stabbing you in the back xx enjoy your pastie!!

Officially Mrs Julie-Anne Muir
- CommentAuthorRelfy
Jeaus nic, when it rains it poors ahy. Im glad it got it sorted with your bm. to be honest, your bm should have know that it would have been an issue, especially if she knew the problems the hoe has caused you. xx
- CommentAuthorb2bnicola
it was very delicious and im not even sorry for having it haha
relf u always make me smile and callin her a hoe did just that :) heheeee
in a MUCH better mood now - thank u :)

xx

Happily Married! :) xxx
- CommentAuthorRelfy
anything for you sweetie!! x
- CommentAuthor~* Jen *~
I think jumping to conclusions about your BM being a backstabber is a bit harsh on her though, glad you got it all sorted, but if something similar happened to me, I would try not to jump to assumptions about my friend. Sorry to say it, but thought it kinda had to be said hun.

Have a nice greggs lunch!! xxx
- CommentAuthorCeCe
Sadly, our friends can be friends with folk we do not like. Fact.

BUT, I would calmly remind your BM of the problems this girl was part of and ask her to remember as a friend of 20 years NONE of your PRIVATE business is to be discussed. Ever. Getting arsey with her etc will just lead to further upset. Probably for you.

Best wishes.
- CommentAuthormrs pinkalice
b itch! she should of at least told you as she would have known it would upset you x
- CommentAuthorMrs.Caz.Lewis
i know how u feel, my H2B's brother and his misses are both in contact with my H2Bs ex who he had a son with, she wont let him see his son and is on my case and his all the time slagging us off calling him a deadbeat dad and im the reason H2B doesnt see his son anymore! i find it enraging cos its like, she cheated on him while he was at home taking care of the baby, and they still talk to her, they say its cos hes their nephew and i get that, but WHY OH WHY be all like, hey hun, bet you will look stunning at your wedding x, yea my H2Bs ex is getting married tomos and thats what i saw my H2Bs Brothers Misses posted to her! argh why oh why!

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