Its the 5year anniversary this weekend since mil passed away, and i saw on my bil's status that his dad & his new gf are going to pay their respect this weekend SORRY BUT WHO THE HELL DOES HE THINK HE IS??? he cheated on mil gawd knows how many times, didnt care for her at all, spends most his time in the pub rather then looking after his son, his new piece of skirt NEVER knew mil so why the hell is she going? sorry but why should he pay his respects to her when he didnt love her? I blame him for her death! if he didnt spend ALL his time in the pub or sh*gging about his 18yo son WOULDNT have to go councelling because he doesnt feel like he can talk to anyone thanks to his p*ssed up cheating scumbag of a dad!!!
Little Miss StressHead
I speak my mind if ya dont like it then tough
Men cant live with them, cant legally kill them
I'm like Marmite you either love me or hate me!!
CommentAuthorUnknown
firstly calm down...you say he didnt love her but he must have done or he would have left. just because you cheat doesnt mean that you dont love your wife.
was he with this gf when your mil died? just because they didnt know each other doesnt mean that she cant pay repects!
i didnt know my mil or fil2b they both passed away before me and Ed got together but i still go to their grave and put flowers on it on their birthdays, anniversaries of their deaths and christmas!
i go because i love h2b and i want to do it may be the same for her!!
CommentAuthorHalloween_Bride
he did leave her, sorry but how can you love someone but still cheat on them? he was with his piece of skirt for gawd knows how long before mil died (diff one btw) he said to bil "when you feel upto it H can move in" mil wasnt even cold in the urn before he moved her in 2 weeks AFTER she died! he didnt respect mil at all, he was putting pressure on her,
thats different with mil & fil2b they were your h2b's parents, sorry but ui dont think he should pay his respects & a lot of the family feel the same,
Little Miss StressHead
I speak my mind if ya dont like it then tough
Men cant live with them, cant legally kill them
I'm like Marmite you either love me or hate me!!
CommentAuthorUnknown
only reason i say you can love someone and cheat on them is one of my friends had been with her bf for a long time and went out one night like she normally did and slept with someone else. she loved her bf more than anything and still to this day doesnt know why she did it but they moved on from it and are now married with a little boy!
that is slighlty different then if they moved in together after 2 weeks of her dying. can the family not speak to him and say how upset everyone is and thinks it is out of order?
CommentAuthorMrs fairytale
i have to say i am 100% with u halloween, he has no right sounds like a total wanker, i would be angry as well hun. but like mrs barkertobe said cant a memebr of the famliy speak to him and explain what he is doing is sooooo wrong xx
cant wait to renew my vows, love my hubby sssssooooo much xx
i agree if you dont respect someone in life then to make a big show of respect when the person dies is disgusting how can you possibly cheat on someone treat them like dirt by doing so leave them and then move some bit of skirt in with his poor son who had just lost his mum and then take the same bit of skirt to his sons mothers grave its a disgrace he sounds like an annimal i feel sorry for that poor young lad heaven help him its a shame sorry to go on but folk like that make me so mad x
CommentAuthorclaireandpete
I completely agree with Janetx71. He clearly had no respect for her when she was alive why show remorse now. Hope you & H2B are ok, must be a very hard time for you both.
CommentAuthorHalloween_Bride
nope cause the family want to kill him! his reason for cheating on her? because she wasnt giving him sex! sorry but thats a pathetic excuse to cheat, everyone was very close to mil the day she died she went to see a solictor about changing her will but felt ill so went home, the lads saw NOTHING of her apart from her pension being shared between them, h2b having one of her rings. i mean really what kinda bloke BURNS his wife's possesions after she died? leaving just her name tag from where she worked?
Little Miss StressHead
I speak my mind if ya dont like it then tough
Men cant live with them, cant legally kill them
I'm like Marmite you either love me or hate me!!
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
i can see why ur angry but maybe she wants to go to support him... maybe now feels guilty? you never know what can be going on in someone elses head.
yes he was a tw@ by the sounds of it and didnt respect her but it is his choice and if you get that upset by something you read on fb i'd remove the person who had it on.
my best friend died 2 yrs ago and her ex hubby is getting married in july to one of her friends, not every1 agrees with it and my friends daughters had kick offs at the grave side when they turned up together one the anniversary day (disgrace was not the word!!)
soon to be Mrs Berry 26.11.2011
CommentAuthorHalloween_Bride
i wont remove my bil from fb, it was his dad's piece of skirt that commented on his status
Little Miss StressHead
I speak my mind if ya dont like it then tough
Men cant live with them, cant legally kill them
I'm like Marmite you either love me or hate me!!
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
you can block her on yours so you cant see the comments though hun if it hurts too much
soon to be Mrs Berry 26.11.2011
CommentAuthorHoxxyhula
It sounds like he was a nasty piece of work and did not treat mil well at all, and that he is acting hypocritically. However, perhaps he now regrets how he behaved or something like that. I can see why it sticks in the throat and why people are upset at this, but you can't really stop someone paying their respects and I guess the only way to cope with it is just to ignore. I do believe that you can love someone and still cheat on them, but does not feel like that is true in this case. Hope you feel better soon x
CommentAuthor*D*a*n*n*i*
im sorry but if someone cheats they either have no self respect and they obviously dont care. ridiculous!! id never cheat on my partner becuase i would never get my self in a situation where it could happen to start with and because I LOVE HIM. even if that person is married to the person they cheated on there must have been something going on there for her to cheat!
I Love My Girls!!!
CommentAuthor*D*a*n*n*i*
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i totally agree with you hun wat a scum bag !!! he obviously doing it to try and seem like he a good parent for the son!
I Love My Girls!!!
CommentAuthorHoxxyhula
I think cheating can be more complex than just not caring, and I've known couples that have survived it precisely because they do love each other, but I guess we can just agree to disagree on this one :) As I say though, does sound like he behaved very very badly
CommentAuthorHalloween_Bride
he has NEVER been a good parent to bil, like i said earlier in the thread he spends most of his time in the pub getting wasted, it was his ex (one he moved in 2 weeks later) who got bil on the apprenticip (sp) course, SHE encouraged him to go for it etc, and then when his dad realised they were getting close what did he do? dumped her! because she was being the parent that he hasnt & never will be!!
Little Miss StressHead
I speak my mind if ya dont like it then tough
Men cant live with them, cant legally kill them
I'm like Marmite you either love me or hate me!!
