I would leave it the way it is hun. You have, as you said, 2 brilliant friends that each bring something different to your life, and you love them for what, and who they are. Just let them both be a special part of your day, is it worth rocking the boat? On the day they will both just be bridesmaids to everyone else, and you and h2b will be the main focus .... enjoy the things they do when they do it and love them for being your best friends :) x
Became Mrs Lyons 30th July 2011 x
CommentAuthorVx Debz xV
I think I'd leave it as it is, just for your own sanity!
CommentAuthorMRST
yeah id say leave it as it is!!! things may change! x
CommentAuthorMrswright
leave well alone it will be your day nobody will know which bridesmaid has which "tag" attached x
i think i'd leave it just now, but if it keeps happening maybe have a word, and say it upsets you that whenever you mention the wedding she starts talking about hers, even though she isn't engaged yet. xx
CommentAuthorlemondrops
CommentAuthorohfiddles
i would leave things the way they are hun, however i would try to give the important jobs that MOH do to MOH2, and just because you are listening to what MOH1 says doesnt mean you have to take her ideas on boared hun xxxx
CommentAuthorEriksfjord
I would leave things as they are! I have a similar situation but have sorted it differently (this may or may not help!) I have a MOH & a CB. My MOH is my best friend but she has 4 daughters and a very busy life - my CB is a close friend who lives round the corner - loves weddings and is around for more stuff - I have asked them both what they wanted to do. MOH will be my witness - organise the other BM's (her daughters) and attend all events like Hen Do's, rehersal dinner and BM's dinner. CB is organising Hen Do's and taking me shopping! This has worked really well so far as everyone knows what they are doing and is happy! (This may of course change yet). I love this situation as I value both these friends and am glad to have them involved. Treasure your friends Lemondrops - they will get you through! Just as an aside is there any possibility she will get engaged before your wedding? Good Luck xx
CommentAuthorSuzi
Yeah leave things be hun! To be honest I don't think there is any difference between MOH or BM's, the only difference is a MOH is suppose to be married, otherwise they all pretty much do the same thing! It will all be OK!!!
Do not disturb... Already disturbed enough!
CommentAuthorkirsto
Yeah id leave it just now, would probably make things worse if you did say something x
CommentAuthorlemondrops
CommentAuthoreebeegeebee
Just appreciate that you have two great friends to give you different types of advice and support. There's no point insulting someone over it as like someone else said to the outside world they will both just look like bridemaids! See them both for what they are best at, your one friend is there to pep you up and the other is one to bounce ideas off of! Good luck!
CommentAuthor~* Jen *~
How do you plan on getting engaged? Doesn't that spoil the surprise? xxx
