blush, i am the same. i change my mind all the time and as the date comes closer, my mind changing hasn't got any better

it's awful as it adds more stress.

at the moment i have 2 wedding dresses and 2 different styles of bm dresses

Why dont you get your short list together and then get your H2B to choose.... then you havent got to make the decision and he is involded too xxx

Kizywizy, it's a total nightmare isn't it?! I was hoping to have longer to plan but I'm guessing I'll be the same and get worse the closer we get! I'm dreading the dress the most I think, I can see me changing my mind alot! Xx

Higgins, I think it will help if I could make up my mind on the theme. I know our colours will be grey and light pink but I'm torn between having vintage/birdcages/roses (as my friend who is marrying in the same month wants this theme) or to do cherry blossom as I love the look of it on stationary and things but I would have to use artificial blossom as it won't be available early match and I don't think it looks particularly realistic whereas foam roses look lovely, xx.

Milz, I asked him to look at the stds but he chose wrong, lol. I need flower inspiration I think then things might move faster, xx.

Little kettle, I think once I've decided on the theme I might get him more involved. So far he's been a bit dismissive saying that's my domain. He's very giddy about his stag do though so once he's sorted that I'm hoping he'll remember there's a wedding to organise too ;) xx

Thanks for your help guys, xx.

Aww I was the same - you just want everything to be perfect, got most of it sorted now but it was a pain in the backside. You'll get there... h2b choosing can definitely help too - I narrowed ours down and if I was stuck he'd tell me which he liked better and we'd go from there x

my std was purple but nowt to do wiv butterflys etc mny them i just got magnets off ebay but i sent mien out at 16 months if u dont get them within next month i wudnt bother n just send ure invites out at 6 months instead x

Ps, thank you do much for the inspiration pictures kisywisy, I think I have settled on a rise theme now :) xxxx