my son is wanting a birthday party this year and me n h2b sat down n had a think about it n we sed yes x now its gettin closer we have worked it out and its gona cost us nearly 300.00 pound for his cousins n his 20 class mates x i dunt wana let him down but we simply cant afford it x well not that many kids x i was gna ask him 2 pick sum of his friends from school but then what are his other friends that havent been invited going to think x i dunt wana b a **** about it x please help laides x

p.s his birthday is 1st december x x x x

Can you not look at doing something simple like a small buffett yourself and buy a supermarket cake. Kids dont eat that much and like all cheap things like cake, crisps etc. You could do your own music and play own games and do it at home. You could then make them little goodies bags.

kids bday parties are so expensive! my daughter has one each yr and this yr i have managed to get a good deal.
she's had a bouncy castle indoor one which was quite cheap 50 quid for 2 hrs i provided the food.
she's had build a bear they got a good bag and a bear (maccies was the food! not gr8 but the kids dont mind do they!) £9 then the happy meals on top. plus travel too.
this yr she is having a super funky roller disco 2hrs skating and food and goody bag included!£10 then travel on top.

but she is only allowed 3 friends from school the rest are either cousins or friends outside of school i have a max of 10 including herself!!

dont feel guilty about cutting down the numbers how old is he? cant you sit down and explain that they cost quite a bit and he can have some friends but not all?? i do this and my daughter is pretty good (she's 10 this month) and has always known i couldnt afford a huge party for her bday

bowling, the cinema, a swimming party, a football party,
xxx

i really hope you sort something out xx