My H2B has a condition where we might not be able to have children.. Im pretty gutted as i have always wanted a baby with him, he is my whole world and to have a baby with him would be amazing so when he got the news from the hospital yesterday it was pretty upsetting :( I should be grateful though as i do already have a little girl from a previous relationship and her dad is having a baby with his new girlfriend (which doesnt help the situation as im kinda jealous lol).. Im just upset that she is gonna be my only child and im not even with her dad.. stupid i know but i needed a rant as we dont want anybody to know :(
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24th June 2011
CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
big hugs hun its hard when you want more children xxx
we dont want anymore really we have 3 between us but none together but were fine with it xx
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CommentAuthorprincess_alicia
aww babe hugs to you. you just said 'might' not be able to have children so thats not a definite 'cant'. you never know what will happen in the future :) i really hope for you that you do have lots of beautiful children in the future :) and there is always adopting or fostering, ivf aswell or a sperm donor. i know its not the same but there are many options for you. hope you are ok :) x x x x x
CommentAuthorx~Hails~x
Awww hunni the only thing i can think of to say is................that sucks! sorry lol
Just remember there are many many options for having kids these days, adoption, ivf, surrogates and many more. Have alook into everything and see what options are available to you both.
And remember you love your h2b for him not for the children he could give you......just remind him of that because believe me its prob going through his head. My sisters ex left her because he couldnt give her children and he said she deseaved to be with someone who could...........she's still trying to convinse him that HE is what she loves NOT what he can or cant give her!!!!
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CommentAuthorluvlifejen (mrs berr
my sister adopted after she had one child on the IVF she didnt think she could go thru the needles again :( there are loads of options like hails said x
Is there not an option to be insemenated with his u know? (sorry cudnt word it any politer)
and u did say might.... not definately... so it still cud happen!
if not theres so many options out there :) x x
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CommentAuthorGregorysGirl
That is sad news, i feel for you. But after the initial shock you will be so much more thankful that you have your little girl and that she has parents that will give her so much love. But adoption would be one avenue, as that would be very rewarding and give a child a much needed home, and as a couple of the girls have said already, it is not definite and you never know, these things happen when you least expect it to. Big hugs and hope it all works out ok for you both. How is your h2b taking the news btw? xx
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CommentAuthorOneDayMrsSmith
Aww hun, I'm sorry to hear that. H2B was "snipped" as a boy, and they messed it up and told him he might not be able to have children, but we'll cross that bridge when we come to it! Hope you're ok though x
CommentAuthorsarahwasabride
awww hun im sorry 2 hear that hun, it cud stil happen u never know, best of luck hun xxx
CommentAuthorljeh92
Hes a bit upset. he knows how much it means to me, im just reassuring him that he is all i want and if we cant have one then that may be how things should be?
i believe things happen for a reason xxx
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24th June 2011
CommentAuthoramy666
my friends have just gone thru the same thing. theyre coping well but its still sad, neither of them have kids. as everyone has said, theres so much new technology that can help you and you and man concsive. and u always see miracle baby stories in mags and papers : ) of course things happen for a reason...n hopefully one of those things is that the doctors are wrong and ul have another beautiful baby someday : ) speak to ur gp about options for if it somes to that. but above all keep doing wat ur doing and keep reassuring him and urself and supporting each other.
all the best xxx
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CommentAuthorltw979
((((hugs))))) There are options (when it is not so raw) that you can explore. xx
CommentAuthorlala "mod" bunni
give yourselfs time ....concentrate on the wedding
you said might- is that definately the case or just a more then likely scenario. have you discussed other options? you might still be able to have children via IVF or something like that. have you even considered adoption/fostering because there are plenty of "lost" children out there who need a mum and dad.
like lala bunni said, give yourself time and concentrate on the wedding for now. have you tried speaking to H2b about it? chances are he'll be needing some reassurance right now that you still love him no matter what.
CommentAuthorRachie :D
My boss adopted they got their child last December & everyone lives the gorgeous little man and it doesn't make any difference at all it can work out. Keep your chin up babes xxx
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CommentAuthorDi B 83
We are going through the same thing hun, test from the hospital show that neither of us can have children, it is hard but we would rather be together and not have children if that is what is meant to be, big hugs x
CommentAuthorEmsy5000
awww hugs I didn't want to read and run. hope things work out
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CommentAuthorMrsC2b
aww so sorry to hear that, my friend got told the same and that at best he had a 16% sperm count and that it was unlikly he would concieve because of mumps in his testicles. anyway 2 years later and their baby is due next month... you just never know what life has in store. keep positive and don't let it get you down too much. i would be gutted if it happened to us but in this horrid horrid world i spose everyone has to be grateful for all the nice things we do have in our lives.....some people never ever find love so at least we can all say we found that :-)
CommentAuthorheidianne
big hugs sweetie. I don't know what to say to make it better all i can offer is a huge Heidi hug
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CommentAuthorGriff
Big hus hun. You might find you can have kids with a little help from your doctors. Wait until the situation hasbeen properly investigated xx
CommentAuthorclareabella
well hun i know the feeling ive been there had a implantation and now on mulit vitamins u n ur h2b shud ask 4 fither advice its like un explained infertility hun i know the feeling iam here if u wanna talk and they could always offer u ivf
